I was in a relationship where I gave a lot of myself trying to keep things stable and make her happy. Over time I realised I was taking responsibility for things that weren’t mine and losing parts of who I was. In the end, there were lawful lies, inconsistency, and actions that didn’t match words. It hurt, but it showed me that I need boundaries and that a relationship has to be 50/50. I’ve let it go, and now I’m trying to focusing on rebuilding myself and moving forward. There’s always a part of me wanting to know how she is because we were together for 2 years and it was our first relationship.
Last updated on:2026-04-06T20:57:03+05:30
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do you feel like that part of you wanting to know how she is is about her, or more about not fully closing that chapter yet?
letting go was the hardest part for me
giving so much of myself just to keep things steady while slowly losing who i was. that mix of love and confusion when their words don’t match their actions really messes with your head… it took me a while to see i was carrying way more than my share too.
i know how you feel, I’ve been going through the same thing. i know it’s hard now but it will get better. focus on the things that make you happy and distract yourself. it’s pointless fighting for someone that doesn’t give the same effort back.