She slept with multiple guys behind my back for money. I knew she was doing this and warned her not to. She promised that she would never do it again but she continued doing it and I caught her red handed. She's pleading innocent but asked her to show her travel history (as she doesn't have any other means of transportation). She's reluctant and never showed. Now she's showing aggression and playing Victim Card.
I asked her, "Do you love me?" In reply she says, "It will take time to..."
After all these, I still love her and couldn't come over her. I badly want to separate. I'm suffering with the time I have spent with her. PLEASE HELP🙏🏽
Last updated on:2026-04-06T14:52:03+05:30
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you feel like you’re holding onto who she said she’d be, or who she’s actually been showing you she is?
that's a clear boundary crossing but I would also want to know more about the context. Does she have other ways of making money or did she struggle to find other acess to employment? Did she agree to this or did you pressure her?
it's not okay either way to lie, but I would want more context to understand the dynamic. Sex workers often do sex work because they have limited options
i went through something similar where i kept giving chances and she kept crossing the same line, then flipped it on me when i caught her. that mix of love and betrayal really messes with your head
I’m sorrry
Three words: drop her now.
I am so very sorry that you are going thru this. keep your head up, keep moving forward, know you're not alone, and do what's best for you
She's a problem you need to get rid of. I'll say it again, a problem. Your relationship is over the moment she did not consider your feelings. It is over.