Feeling lost after my ex went silent

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so something happened that I accidentally talked to my ex (we are cool) so I told him about the conversation n he became angry and we talked it out then two days later he just went quite it's been a week since we last talked. He logged out of my socials and unfollowed me. ik it's over but he assured me that everything was fine

Last updated on:2026-04-07T00:13:17+05:30

Comments (4)

hidedisply
hidedisply 2 wks ago

when he got upset about you talking to your ex, did it feel like he was actually okay after you talked it out, or did something still feel off in that moment?

Zekhethelo
Zekhethelo 2 wks ago

it felt off and when I ask him about it he just said "we talked about this and I am not angry" but his tone said otherwise and he said I should stop thinking he is angry he can never be angry at me

lightworld
lightworld 2 wks ago

when someone goes quiet like that after saying it’s okay, i started taking the silence as the answer even when i didn’t want to. it hurt, but it stopped me from waiting on mixed signals.

heavylove
heavylove 2 wks ago

my ex did the same thing, said everything was fine after a hard talk and then just disappeared like i imagined the whole connection. that switch from reassurance to silence really messes with your head