idk how to do breakup without no contact. and i fail at doing no contact. and if i stay in contact, we'll be either in love so deep or just fighting. idk
Last updated on:2026-05-05T20:09:06+05:30
How do i break up without going no contact?
idk how to do breakup without no contact. and i fail at doing no contact. and if i stay in contact, we'll be either in love so deep or just fighting. idk
Last updated on:2026-05-05T20:09:06+05:30
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do you feel like staying in touch actually gives you peace, or just keeps pulling you back into the same cycle?
pulls me back to the cycle tbh. i want to stay in touch but i also keep complaining and feel resentful.
i tried staying in contact too and it was either intense love or constant fights, no middle ground. it drained me so bad
for real
this exhausts me so much
Ima be real with you, which honestly I'm going through as well maybe you're just experiencing something known as "codependency" and because of that you're so used to the routine with the person that whenever you text it's like a reflex. ask yourself do you miss the person or did you become too comfortable with the routine?. yes relationships come with arguements etc but is it worth you putting your mental health at risk etc. you need to think for yourself if this is "good or not?", focus on putting yourself first and work on yourself. once you do this you'll know what's your boundaries and what you actually want from a relationship.
long story short, choose yourself, focus on yourself and once you get this done you'll eventually know who's for you and who is not. you'll be okay😌
thats so true but yk i understand all of that and even suggest my friends the same but when it comes to myself. I can't practice that
i try to get away and get over but i get urges and i keep looking for excuses and then i succumb.
@healmepls I am the exact same🙈 end this when your mind has been made up because if you just end things all because of people telling you to then obviously you'll still feel attached to the person. you need to know when to call it quits. either it's putting your mental health at risk or it's staying in a relationship that brings constant uphills to you.