i answered too, even after telling myself i wouldn’t. sometimes your heart reacts before your brain can catch up. i used to stare at my phone for HOURS hoping for that text, then panic the second it actually came.
was it one of those casual “hey” messages or did he actually say something meaningful? because those tiny breadcrumb texts used to mess with my head SO badly.
i felt worse. he found out there were stories circulating about him in our company. i think he got upset that i shared what happened, but i swear i didn't try to tarnish his reputation.
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its OK, we all slip up. you are strong, you will be able to resist next time!
i answered too, even after telling myself i wouldn’t. sometimes your heart reacts before your brain can catch up. i used to stare at my phone for HOURS hoping for that text, then panic the second it actually came.
don’t beat yourself up for replying
ignoring someone we used to love is surely hard 😔
was it one of those casual “hey” messages or did he actually say something meaningful? because those tiny breadcrumb texts used to mess with my head SO badly.
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it's okay, be gentle with yourself. It gets easier.
how did you feel after you replied?
i felt worse. he found out there were stories circulating about him in our company. i think he got upset that i shared what happened, but i swear i didn't try to tarnish his reputation.
after how many days he contacted you?
it's complicated. we've been inconsistently messaging since we broke up. but it seems like he will not change his mind anymore.