Why i couldn't ignore his message after the breakup

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I replied. 😭 I couldn't ignore him.

Last updated on:2026-05-21T22:44:57+05:30

Comments (11)

CrumbMo576
CrumbMo576 3 days ago

its OK, we all slip up. you are strong, you will be able to resist next time!

dutter00
dutter00 4 days ago

i answered too, even after telling myself i wouldn’t. sometimes your heart reacts before your brain can catch up. i used to stare at my phone for HOURS hoping for that text, then panic the second it actually came.

dumpling
dumpling 4 days ago

don’t beat yourself up for replying

BoldVibes645
BoldVibes645 4 days ago

ignoring someone we used to love is surely hard 😔

8BB50
8BB50 5 days ago

was it one of those casual “hey” messages or did he actually say something meaningful? because those tiny breadcrumb texts used to mess with my head SO badly.

mischaos
mischaos 5 days ago

🥺

manicfaedreamgoblin

it's okay, be gentle with yourself. It gets easier.

manicfaedreamgoblin

how did you feel after you replied?

gracethn
gracethn 5 days ago

i felt worse. he found out there were stories circulating about him in our company. i think he got upset that i shared what happened, but i swear i didn't try to tarnish his reputation.

Broken123456
Broken123456 5 days ago

after how many days he contacted you?

gracethn
gracethn 5 days ago

it's complicated. we've been inconsistently messaging since we broke up. but it seems like he will not change his mind anymore.