How do I get over him?
How do I forget him already? Everywhere I look, I see him. I have so many things and little reminders from him, and everything hurts so much. I miss him. But we’re not good together. He hurts me, and I hurt him. I imagined my whole life with him, and now what? How do I move on? How do I forget? I thought we were meant for each other because we know each other so well and everything used to be so beautiful. I don’t understand why he had to start acting controlling, manipulative, and jealous. Why? He’s the only one I ever wanted, but I always had to prove myself. I don’t understand anymore. How do I get over this?
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when you say he started acting controlling and manipulative, was it sudden or did it build up slowly over time? like did something shift or did you only see it clearly once you were out?
i went through this with someone i thought i’d grow old with too. the reminders everywhere, the little things they left behind, the way the good memories confuse the hell out of you. i also watched someone i loved slowly turn controlling and jealous and i kept thinking if i loved harder it would go back to how it was. it never did. you’re not crazy for missing him and still knowing he wasn’t good for you.
I would advise you to first get rid of the many things and little reminders of him... whatever you see or have that remains you of him, try to get rid of it... let's start from there ❤️🩹💐🫂 remember, out of sight, out of mind...
Same here too😓💔
I don’t know how to let him go💔