What Should I Do?
hi everyone, so my bf and I haven't broke up but he stops doing all those things he used to do in the beginning of the relationship... and now final act he can go hours without texting me and I find myself begging and chasing him more , I double text , call and all ... he doesn't even want to talk to me on the phone cause now he is saying, he isn't a phone call person... he is busy with his work, and he is busy cause he is moving to his new house... so what should I do now?
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you stop texting first or calling for a bit, does he notice and step up, or does the distance just grow more
i realized chasing only made me feel worse, not closer. pulling my energy back didn’t fix him, but it helped me breathe and see things clearer
i agree
I think you are an anxious attachment and need to allow space. You need to trust him and show that you are secure in your relationship.
how love have you guys been together? have you talked to him about how you feel?
the slow pullback hurt worse than an actual breakup. i was double texting, calling, chasing too. watching effort disappear made me feel needy and small, even though i wasn’t asking for much
sounds like the honeymoon phase ended pretty quickly. If u find yourself doing the most, back off. consider walking away or give him a taste of his own medicine. anything he can do u can do better. remember double texting shows u are needy and clingy, which is a turn off. going hours without texting ur bf or gf should be OK.
it's just 5 months into our relationship