currently I'm on day 103 no contact. lately I've been feeling very good. ever since i blocked him everywhere i feel liberated. earlier i was crying my guts out all the time and felt awful. i think i greaved enough and don't have anything more in me. is it even possible? couple days ago this guy came to me and we stared talking. we had an amazing flo and I cought myself thinking about him. i feel bad tho. i feel like i should feel bad for a longer period of time? does talking to the new guy make me a bad person?
Last updated on:2025-12-13T02:12:03+05:30
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do you feel guilty because you still want closure with your ex, or because the new guy made you feel something you weren’t expecting?
I'm the exact same place as you. I'm talking to a new guy too, you shouldn't feel bad ❤️ I promise you it's okay to slowly move on
you’re not a bad person for talking to someone new. you’re just healing. sometimes the guilt is just leftover emotion, not a sign you’re doing something wrong. go slow if you need to. check in with yourself. that’s usually what helps me.
when I went no contact with my ex, i thought I’d be broken for MONTHS. then out of nowhere week 10 hit and i just… breathed again. it felt weird to not be drowning in pain. i even started vibing with someone new and panicked like “am i allowed to feel this??” so yeah, it’s possible. sometimes the grief just runs its course faster than we expect.