Why do i keep checking my blocked list?
how to stop checking my blocked list to see if I have heard from him. I know I haven't so I need to stop.
Healing & Recovery
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Am i the asshole for making friends after the breakup?
We’ve been together for 2 years and 5 months in a long distance relationship. We still met eachother but not that often because he always got some excuses. At the end we fought alot and barely talke
Does 25 years of love mean nothing?
I am so angry at her for destroying what we had. does it mean more than 25years relationship means nothing
Why can't i stop dreaming about him?
i am not feeling well, everytime i wake up i feel like things between us are still okay, in every dream i see, we sort things out but the moment i wake up, i wake up to reality of him being not there
Why does it hurt so much seeing him move on?
the other day he started hitting up another girl. that girl supposedly being my friends friend. she has a boyfriend and he didn’t know it at the time, and he was giving her his undivided attention t
I hate her for breaking my heart
so found out why she ended things turns out there was another guy, she got with him a few weeks aftee we broke up but told me she only wanted “space” for now and she told me to wait for her until
Can abusive partners change? my ex's message made me doubt everything
My ex reached out through Google Chat (a platform I didn't realize was active) while he is on his two-week work shift. He sent a high-emotion message expressing regret for pushing me away during our
Navigating the ups and downs of healing
This is a gentle reminder that you will have days where youre happy and positive and feeling good about nc. and other days where you will feel sad and miserable and will want to break nc. Just remem
Why do i feel like a fool after my breakup?
I’ve been seeing a woman for over three years. She is not perfect, but she was perfect for me. our relationship was always very one-sided but I truly felt my best when I was giving / doing something
Why am i feeling confused after he texted me?
Last Saturday I was at one of my lowest points and I texted him after not speaking for months. I needed to talk to someone about my pain. He welcomed me and helped me, even though I didn't tell him an
Lessons learned too late: my struggle with emotional manipulation
It’s becoming more and more clear to me how much emotional manipulation happened to me and went on in this relationship and breakup. And still I am feeling the strongest need to voice that to her, t
Still missing her after 2 years: a heartfelt struggle
Its already been 2 years since the last contact where I begged her to block me and never come back. I still miss her, and miss who I was when I was with her. So many things remind me of her, one of th
Why does he blame me no matter what i do?
He constantly blames me; if I distance myself, he blames me, and if I get close, he ignores me. What does he want?! Why does he always resort to blaming and run away from confrontation? He makes me fe
Did i mess up my relationship?
when I began relationship with my bf I told him I never had a proper relationship..I did had a talking stage but never dated anyone like never went on a date after 9 months of relationship...we were h
I just want his apology—the pain is real
I am very anxious, my heart is very heavy right now. All I want is his genuine apology and him with me. I am very anxious. This hurts😭
Stalking him on socials: am i giving away my energy?
I believe in energy and tarot. I think that when I distance myself, I draw energy from him, making him feel empty and causing him to return. Is this true? Share with me If this happened to you, and ho
Why did he promise marriage if he wasn't serious?
i have this urge to text him and ask him about why he did all this? why did he throw everything away? when i was trying my best to keep it all together, why? instead of fixing, why did he run away? an
Why i finally deleted our chats
i finally deleted all our chats. i didnt want to but seeing the chats makes me have the urge read all the messages all over again and makes me cling on to hope. its over, i want it to be over.
Will I be able to move on? Will I be able to forget him completely?
Will I be able to move on? Will I be able to forget him completely?
Can laughter really cure heartbreak? my experience
Guys if dealing w heartbreak feels impossible, just watch some standup comedy videos!! it helps sooo much🥹 I've been watching so manyy and it's making me laugh through my tough times and overall ma
Why did he leave me? the questions that haunt me
Why did he leave me? Was it because I was nice, or was he forced by his family? He's 12 years older than me.
Blocked without warning: trying to understand our breakup
Well can somebody tell me if it was my fault or his for the break up and if I should contact him or not Well we were going through a rough time, and we broke up but I did a lot of effort and begging t
Why hitting the 3 month mark after a breakup hurts so much
I feel so dumb, yesterday hit 3 months of us broken up and that milestone triggered me and I felt so depressed and still do, I was dumb and checked her socials and she's talking to others guys, wished
Choosing peace after heartbreak: my journey
So today I already choose peace, blocked his number blocked everything there's no turning back. I miss the old me! The HAPPY ME. I am very self you have to suffer this way😞
Why does he keep contacting me if he wants me to move on?
Everytime we end up talking again, and he eventually leaves, I get heartbroken all over again, and everytime again he tells me I need to move on and stop thinking about him and stuff, but HE is the on
how do i get past my breakup faster?
i don't know why i keep thinking and dreaming abt him, like my brain is literally telling me i don't wanna be with him and it's the right decision, but my body physically hurts not being with him. it
Why did he leave me? jealousy and control ruined us
my boyfriend broke up w me last week, nope none of us cheated or did anything wrong w each other he just said that sometimes i get super jealous and which leads to me being controlling? and he said he
Feeling abandoned after a promise of forever
it happened a week ago, but i knew he was gonna breakup with me, somewhere in his eyes i saw him being tired of daily problems and he did, someone who promised to marry me left me, someone who wanted
The complicated situation of my ex and his new relationships
it's honestly kinda... complicated, and explaining everything would take a while, but around dec 2024 he started dating my ex bsf (we were friends for like 8 years, shes the one that introduced me to