Did i ruin my chance at love?
One random Saturday, 4/10/2025 my friends and she tells that don't open your instagram I was like why?? and she was like in full panic mode. Because she has my ID, but I was like what happened. What h
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Why do i keep clinging to our memories?
Got into an accident and latched onto them, unfulfilled plans, and good memories for comfort. Started digging things up that were already over and I didn’t know. We had someone step in and set bound
How do i cope with my ex-girlfriend's anniversary?
mine and my ex-gf's 1 year is coming up tomorrow on Halloween I'm not sure how to cope or to not think about it so much... we broke up early June this year and she's moved on for 3 months now (yes, he
Am i crazy for wanting to move after a breakup?
So, a job opportunity has risen in a major city near me. I am considering applying as it would mean a break from education. A pivot into a different industry. I would have to rent out my unit and make
Why did he cheat on me? my heartbreak story
we were together for 3 years he was my first everything and I was his. we were in high school when we met and I genuinely thought he was going to be the father or my children and my husband. then arou
Why am i struggling again after a breakup?
it’s about 12 days since I last checked in on him in some way shape or form, but over a month since we’ve actually talked. I’m just regressing a lot, crying, sad, feeling super alone. when jist
Why do breakups feel like a storm?
“Take a ride with me along the way, see what I see. Crashing down in all them waves. You’re gonna need a steady hand, to batten down the hatches tonight, facing the rain, containing t
Why i want to break no contact but can't
i barely made it to 24 days with my life but i want to break no contact so badly but i actually can’t do it because then i would have to start from scratch and it will hurt more n more each time. i
Is he really moving on?
its been over a month since our break up and going strong with 2 weeks of no contact. He was supposed to move in February but our mutual friends told me something happened and that they were worried b
Why can't he just be honest? the pain of uncertainty in my relationship
He never gives clarity about our relationship it's been 2yrs... i feel like he is cheating i don't know maybe its my overthinking or not.. when i try to express my feelings he never listen... its an i
Is it worth trying again after a toxic relationship?
So I've been previously married for 10 years. Me and the ex have a son together. We separated when he was 6. A few years after our divorce I met a beautiful woman. I've never believed in love at first
How do i find my safe space after a breakup?
Me and my ex recently broke up after having a rough relationship but yet always chose to stay and try to be better up to this point. I knew something had been off for a while but my heart didn’t wan
Why am i stuck in this endless breakup cycle?
BUT, i found a way. My mind works for a solution that protects my Peace and emotional stability. I have decided to work double shifts to help me cope a breakup 3 years of relationships. The routine is
Missing her on day 16: the struggle to heal
I know that I need to hold myself down not to contact her, I need to change for better, heal and move forward so I can be a better to see if there's another chance. it's an uphill battle for sure, but
25 days of no contact: a heartbreak journey
Saw him 5 days ago. it wrecked me. but the next day wrote him an unsent letter, said it out loud to a picture of him, listened to sad music as I wrote it, cried as in WEPT, and WEPT. Feelng lighter an
Why am i tempted to follow him again?
i know it sounds STUPID and unessecery and i may Not do it. I removed him a week ago. I sometimes feel okay with that choise, because its like i showed my anger and set a boundary, after he dumped his
Does it get easier after a breakup?
I still feel lost. We broke up around August 8 and strict no contact since September 24. I feel like life is just happening around me, but I’m not really living it. I don’t know how to let go.
Why am i so confused after a first date?
Hey hey I recently had an unexpected first date night before last. It was riddled with lots of emotions, intensity, and it made me confused. I feel that I am over my ex as a person. But experienci
Did you ever set a time to meet again after no-contact?
Asking because of my own situation right now, i want know how long, if you or them moved on by that time, if it went well or not, if people say this to lie to soften the blow of breaking up or do they
Why i regret checking my cheating ex's instagram again
I broke down and checked my cheating ex’s Instagram through the web and I regret it so much. She cheated on me twice before leaving me for the other guy last December. Now she’s already in anothe
Why can't i move on from my ex who can't commit?
my ex was the first guy I genuinely saw a real future with. For three months we acted like a couple daily calls constant dates physical affection and deep care. But right before a hyped-up birthday su
Why i can miss him and still move on
I miss him. Not in a way that makes me sad or sends me spiralling. I'm actually doing okay. I've been keeping busy, getting out more, talking to people, opening up and getting support through therapy
How do you move on after 21 years of marriage?
This hit me hard after 21 years of being married, came as a shock to be told he no longer loves me or feels anything for me. I tried to set up counseling sessions but he declined them. 8 years ago I h
Why every minute feels unbearable after a breakup
every single minute of every day is anxiety ridden. I can't sleep more than 2 hours at a time without waking up and immediately missing her. we dated almost 3 years and she left me to try it out with
Why did my ex want to be single and have fun?
My ex broke up with me a while ago because she wanted to be single and “have fun without rules.” A few weeks later she got drunk hooked up with her guy best friend and he cut her off right after.
When your best friend becomes a stranger: my 10-year journey
she was someone who i thought would always be permanent. that she would always be with me through everything. we spent our developmental and most fundamental years by each other's side. and no, she wa
Why does heartbreak make me feel numb?
I’m scared dating has taken my whimsy away.I’ve been through so much heartbreak that I can’t even be bothered to feel heartbroken anymore. When someone ends things there’s no disappointment ju
Why did he leave after four years? my heart is broken
me and my “husband separated I say husband bc apparently we was never married bc he didn’t turn in some paper so idk what he is fr but he decided he doesn’t wanna be with me after 4 years of bei
Am i being selfish for needing financial support in my relationship?
My boyfriend and I love each other, and he used to support me financially and show his love through giving. However, he has recently been experiencing financial difficulties, which have affected our r