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Why am i still hurting after moving on?

I now know for sure that he has a new girlfriend. It's okay, I've moved on. And I've never felt better. So why does it still hurt? I dreamt about him again after a long time. I'm afraid of falling ba

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Why am i so anxious about him with someone else?

Alot has happend overnight actually.. So I was getting anxiety of him being with someone else..a teacher from my college...someone told me they are close and everything so then I talked to my frien

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Why did we hurt each other like this?

I recently got out of a relationship with someone i was not dating. We were each others everything but we ended up hurting each other with our actions. I became more of an anxious attachment style whi

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Why is moving on so hard after a breakup?

I can finally eat normally again, and I'm not as upset about it anymore because I see things more clearly now. He broke up with me because he wasn't happy. But I never left him whenever I wasn't happy

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Why do i keep looking back?

I genuinely thought I was moving forward but the last few days have drawn me back in a spiral. All the things I’m feeling are stemming from insecurity and nostalgia. I don’t want her back and I kn

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Why does he ignore me when things get tough?

his family live in the town next mine, we have big fires encercling us but him, leave hours away i posted stories with this picture he knows how bad the situation is but he still don't reach out to k

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Why do i feel stuck after our breakup?

Its been almost 3 years for our relationship .We are in no contact these days.Last time i added a whatapp status about just a video of a kdrama's charcter was my 1st love.He replied it asking who ? 1s

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Why did he call it a situationship?

so it wasn't a boyfriend but a situationship, we couldn't date cuz i'm leaving to England. i didn't mind long distance but he did. turn out it was an excuse. i knew he wasn't in love yet but i truste

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Am i the villain? my catfish confession

I basically catfished him for a few month, he fell in love with me and i fell in love with him too. He found out a week ago and he was very sad about it, i told him i regret what i did and im so sorry

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Why day 4 of my breakup was so hard

Today was so hard compared to yesterday. I felt really heavy and sad all day..and while reaching out crossed my mind, there wasn't an excruciating pull that i was fighting against. So i guess that's a

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Why can't i stop texting him after the breakup?

How do I stop myself from texting him when I know it’s the wrong thing to do? I wanna make excuses for his behavior and get back in contact. What if it is not his fault and he was just in a difficul

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Why did my boyfriend leave me out of nowhere?

so my long term boyfriend broke up with me 4 weeks ago - out of nowhere. He was planning the exit 4 weeks ahead. He told me that he wanted to focus on himself now and on his career. We saw each other

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Why did he pull away after just one night together?

we only talked for four weeks but we texted every single day. he opened up about the end of his 12-year relationship. he told me his ex had serious mental health struggles and had been physically abus

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How i’m taking the first step to move on

Today is the first day of trying to no longer be sucked into a relationship that keeps continually hurting me . But I know it's going to be hard and I don't know how to go about it but I'm going to

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Why did i relapse after my breakup?

I was doing so good for a couple of weeks, and then I relapsed. I saw him again and we ended up kissing. Kind of disappointed in myself for not resisting. But it's so hard when we left on such weird t

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Why can't i let go of my ex?

my ex-girlfriend and i broke up almost two months ago after two years together. when we ended things she told me she still wanted me in her life as a friend. i asked if she thought we could ever find

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Day 9 of no contact: finding my strength

Today is the start of Day 9 of my no contact.. yesterday I talked and connected with my friends again and honestly it felt nice it felt nice to move forward even just a little I am also starting to

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Why am i missing her again?

I’m missing my ex right now but I know how to separate feelings from fact. I miss her because I’m insecure about myself again and also haven’t been winning in life lately. Me and my sister also

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Should i ghost him without explaining?

well guys I was in a relationship with a boy it's a long distance relationship he's the one who was saying I love you and stuff like that I didn't live him at first by then I fell for him Idk how I ge