Why can't i stop hoping for an apology?
I knew he wasn't for me. Everytime I'd try to communicate or needed reassurance, he'd get distant or think that I wanted to fight. The last time it happened he broke up with me. I asked for reassura
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Why i won't look back after being cheated on
## I. Day Eighty-Seven Eighty-seven days of silence in the air, Eighty-seven days of proving you don't care. But do not think your absence makes my spirit bend; It only solidifies how deeply this is
Why i finally went out without texting him
with my friends and didn’t text him or even thought about it! Even if it’s a small step, i’m still proud. Anyway i woke up today and found out that he texted me, because he saw my snap, and said
Why breaking contact is so hard but necessary
Don't break contact the promise to change and make things work never works out protect your peace... its the hardest thing I have had to do but I believe it will be worth it
Is asking for clarity fair after a breakup?
Was this message fair to send? Would you answer? If not, why not? Morning… now that I have some clarity about my daughter and my life, do you think you could tell me where I stand with you? ❤️
Why can't i stop thinking about him?
yesterday was officially a month since he said he would come back if this ever passed. a week after he blocked me i saw him with his arm around a girl who looks somewhat like me on his schools art soc
Why did my ex-fiance leave me when i needed him most?
we've been broken up since July 2nd I know he broke up with me because he was scared I would be unalived when he came back from work he had worried so much because of my depression and i went and got
Why did my boyfriend break up with me after a year?
I don’t know what to say or how or where to start. but today is the last day we communicated.. Me and my boyfriend broke up 4 days ago… we dated for a little bit over a year. but before that he wa
Why stopping the chase can lead to surprising texts
when you stop chasing, most of them text out of curiosity to find out why the dynamic has changed and trust me that’s a win for you….learned that the hard way and equally saw the results when they
Why am i feeling numb after my breakup?
Just feeling outta sorts today…numb feelings, kinda like “an emotional black out where you literally Dont feel any emotions, your just there. Wasn’t expecting her text and didnt feel any emotion
Why seeing him again made me realize i'm not over it
i seen him after 70 days no contact we gonna be in the same lesson its so crazy after i told him to change classes but he didnt and my teacher knows about our situation and she told me she was like
Why didn't he celebrate my birthday?
wow. i didnt see that coming. he didnt celebrate my birthday. not even a single text. i feel like shit
Why am i so tired after my breakup?
I hope I can receive some advice to help me move on. me 26 and he 28, we had a 6 years relationship and he has been an overly jalouse and controlling yet he liked to spend time with me, we used to tal
Why did he block me? the pain of unresolved feelings
I atleast told everything from my side via text and mails but he never called me its been weeks i miss his voice his face his touch but he feels nothing he fell first but i fell harder so now im the o
Can you really forgive a cheater?
Did anyone here ever forgive someone who betrayed them? I’d love to hear your experiences. How long did it take, and under what circumstances?
Why i deleted whatsapp after the breakup
I literally deleted WhatsApp and all my social media because of him. I just needed to disconnect from everything.
Why can't i stop checking his social media?
Yes i am the stupid one for checking their social everyday but their repost are always about me like in a sad way o in a bad way like "i can never love anyone like i did with you" or a repost with the
What do i call this confusing situation?
he told me that he doesn't want to talk to anyone , I know it's normal thing to ask someone but he told me that when we haven't talked for a week and I saw only dry replies but I didn't feel stupid un
Why this time i mean it: resetting no contact for good
ok so several times I've said this will be the last time. but I promise!!! its actually the last time I reset no contact. Tonight we bumped into each other at a gig. We said a polite hello and he sai
Why can't i stop looking at his profile picture?
it has been so hard not to look at the profile picture I feel not worth it I feel its his fault he cheated and left in the middle of the night yet I'm the one feeling this way I wish he could just
Why did he go cold after 8 years?
In 8 years of our relationship i never felt that he doesn't love me, i felt loved and valued. suddenly he came to me saying that he doesn't wanna be together anymore as he has been dating someone else
Why am i still crying over him after a month?
It's already been a month since the breakup. I told him we could start over as friends after a while. And he was OK with that. Cue ONE WEEK LATER, he texts me: Hi. I miss you. Why did you block me? I
Why i regret breaking no contact
i regret breaking the no contact, now he doesn't reply anymore, idk leaving me seen or I'm restricted. i feel stupid.
Why loving deeply isn't a weakness
Have you ever regretted giving so much love to someone? I did. In my early twenties, after having my heart broken, I decided that I would never love my next partner that deeply again. I thought givi
Why did he keep leaving me? my heartbreak journey
we dated for 4 months nd i've never been so attached to a guy in my life. he loved me more thn anyth for the first three months. things were goin amazing. we saw each other every 2 or 3 weeks nd it wa
Why did we really break up? my heart still feels stuck
We broke up on May 11th. At least, that’s the date when our relationship officially ended. But for me, it feels like something got stuck on that day and never really ended. She was my first girlfri
Why didn't you say happy birthday to me?
today is my birthday. september 19th. you know it. you always remember. you were preparing gifts for me. its 01.24 and still there is no message. i wonder if you hate me right now. i am happy with or
Should i text him after the breakup?
I have the feeling I should text him and I don’t know why I mean I’m trying not to think of him anymore but I do still miss him idk thinking about this is making me dizzy and nauseous
Is it normal to still love my ex 3 months later?
we broke up 3 months ago it has been like 24 days since last talked I'm like I still want him I still love him but sometimes I think about another person like in our school or something when I think l
Why can't i stop thinking about her?
I hate it so much because she's off my mind for like the WHOLE DAY and then I just remember how happy we were and i start becoming sad again I always wonder if she ever has moments like that too or im