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Am i ready to date again after a short relationship?

I dated a guy for six months, and we were officially together for two of those months. We broke up six weeks ago, and the last time we had any contact was four weeks ago. It was a short but intense re

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Why am i still waiting for his text?

Hey guys! You might remember me a few posts from before, I'm the 22 year old who slept with her married 38 year old boss. Our company doesnt work in the summer so im officially finished with him (I al

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Why going no contact feels harder than expected

hi it's been a month since i went no contact with him. during that time i've realized that even though we talked every day my sudden disappearance doesn't seem to have affected him at all. he unfriend

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Why my ex's breakup left me confused for months

11 months ago my avoidant ex blindsided me with a breakup. later on i realized she had basically been self sabotaging the relationship for a while so she could leave without feeling guilty because she

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Why i broke no contact on day one

So today was supposed to be my first day of no-contact in my relatively recent break up….and I broke it. There are still some loose ends to tie up, he still hasn’t gotten all of his stuff from the

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How i chose myself after 4 years

4 years - Had to choose myself. love of my life - we have talk every day for hours the past 4 years. All I want is to call him, but I know the painreleve is temporary

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Why is no contact so hard after a breakup?

it’s been one day since I’ve gone no contact with my ex and to be honest it’s been really really hard. Weirdly, it feels like I’ve given up on him even though he was the one to break up with m

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Why did my ex lie to me?

Today, i've been the most disappointed. I saw that my ex gf followed the guy that was flirting with her long time ago that she "hated" the whole time she was with me. I'm questioning our whole relatio

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Why can't i stop thinking about her?

Past few days , been feeling really anxious, not gonna lie. My mind has been constantly thinking of her texting me and us talking again , and getting back together, or me texting her something and the

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Why am i stuck in this breakup mess?

Hey everyone! I'm in a difficult situation right now. If you have been following my several post but most importantly my recent one then you'll see that I'm going through a breakup with a guy who clea

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Should i risk friendship for love?

My bbf confessed his feelings for me yesterday and even said he’ll court me. I like him too, but I’m too scared to lose him, because I believe it’s better to be friends so you can keep each othe

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Why can't i move on after 7 months?

It’s been 7 months since we broke up. I tried dating someone new, but I don’t feel happy or in love. It feels like I can’t love anyone the way I loved him. I still find myself crying when I rand

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Why i regret checking my ex's profile

Hey. So, in a brief moment of weakness today, I went ahead and checked out my ex's discord profile. I was just looking for some sign -- any sign -- that she felt at least a little pain from our break

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Why is my ex reaching out again?

So recently, someone from my past reached out. not my ex, but the one before him. we kind of ended things in the air because neither of us was ready to commit and to be honest, i see us more as friend

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Why do i still miss him?

I thought I was doing really well, and then today, I saw a couple with two boys and it set me off again. I miss the boys more than I miss him, but I do miss him too, even though deep down I know it wa

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How to handle a 2-month break: my struggle

She was everything that I orbited around. It was unhealthy, by my side. Every comment she made, everything that she did, I scrutinized it, and hurt her with my own accusations. Now, she has given me