Today is the first day of trying to no longer be sucked into a relationship that keeps continually hurting me . But I know it's going to be hard and I don't know how to go about it but I'm going to try my best
Last updated on:2026-07-25T00:14:08+05:30
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what was the moment that made you realize you couldn’t keep letting this relationship hurt you like this? i know that moment can stay with you.
I think it was an accumulation of many factors , but even though I was in a relationship, I was waking up feeling alone , empty and just sad , and no matter how much effort I put in and tried it just wasn't recipcated. I found myself crying along suddenly and I knew as hard as it i would feel I have to start respecting myself and saying to myself I deserve better for myself and I just decided to finally just choose to love me even if she no longer feels the way I do
i’m proud of you for even saying “i’m going to try.” i had to start with tiny promises to myself, like getting through one day without checking in or chasing answers.
Thankyou very much I appreciate you saying that . That's good advice and what I'm trying to do just take each day at a time and hope eventually it will feel much better
We are all here with you. 🥰
Thanksyou likewise, I've been overwhelmed with how supportive this group is . I will try to help if I can too
i knew i had to step away but my heart kept reaching back for the same person who kept hurting me. the first days felt impossible, honestly
Yeah I got in a pattern doing that , and it's hard to change that pattern at times . Hoping I can do it this time
One thing that I’ve learned on my journey is that not only will it be tough but it will a long process. The fact that you are here and even want to begin your journey says enough about you and I’m proud of you. If I can help in any way let me know. 👏🏽
I really appreciate the kind words and the honesty , it feels like it's going to a long road but one I'm scared to but must walk to give myself a better future. I am also here for support and to help if I can . Thanks again