Why do breakups feel like a storm?

“Take a ride with me along the way,
see what I see.
Crashing down in all them waves.

You’re gonna need a steady hand,
to batten down the hatches tonight,
facing the rain,
containing the sea that your boat’s in.

I wish there was another way to face the storm we’re in.
battered, torn, and thrown around—
when did this begin?
No one wins.”.