we were together for 3 years he was my first everything and I was his. we were in high school when we met and I genuinely thought he was going to be the father or my children and my husband. then around a year in it was small stuff but I let it slide. then around this summer at our 2/2.5 year mark he went out with his friends and met a girl who he left me for, he ultimately regretted it but during that time I found a guy that I used as a rebound and we did literally everything.. not my ex he couldn’t handle that and I also couldn’t handle that he left me for another girl but after time we worked though it and it ended up working out. then he went out a few months later and made out with a girl. I found out and I freaked out but I still stayed because I do love him. then a few days ago while we were still kinda working everything out he was making out with a girl 2 years younger than him while drunk which is already weird bc of the age gap because of maturity levels but besides the point. I freaked out and confronted him and we ended up arguing and the girl tried fighting me but my ex grabbed me and pulled me away. I took his hat out of anger (yes I gave it back). but sense then we haven’t talked to eachother which was 2 days ago the last thing he said to me was that I was crazy and he’s done for good and he doesn’t love or miss me. I don’t believe him and I still love him but at the same time I know he needs help. first question is how long is to soon to go back if he reaches out and second how do I get him back??
Last updated on:2026-10-31T01:02:30+05:30
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omg NEVER STAY WITH A CHEATER. once a cheater, always a Cheater😭 DO NOT GO BACK, never message him, cut him out of your life. THIS IS NOT LOVE, this is attachment and infatuation😭 this is the exciting dopamine rush you get from his interactions, it's temporary and it's not LOVE. someone who loves you wouldn't cheat EVER. he's a player and he's for the streets!!
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