well,i am officially single after 5yrs of dating..it seems long and one can say that we should have already known how to live together especially when we moved in on our 1st year of relationship..but this is what happens wen you hope for a person to change from verbal and physical abuse,,hoping that they will change but you change instead to making everything about him so that he can see you or maybe understand you..this is me now 6hrs after my breakup,,numb not knowing wat i will do but very motivated to do something for me for once which is very difficult btw coz am not moving on,,am fighting for me from my heart when my mind and body resents him more than my heart loves him..So if you were me what will you start doing knowing very well that i am an introvert.
Last updated on:2026-07-26T00:43:11+05:30
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i started with the smallest things, making my own meals, taking walks, letting my days belong to me again. and because there was physical abuse, i really hope you're talking to someone you trust, not just us.
do you have even one person who knows the full story about what was happening behind closed doors
yeah,,my mum knows and i also told his dad which made him very angry,,saying that we should not involve parents coz it paints a bad picture of our relationship,,,but whats done is done and i have to just accept that we are done and i find some peace in that but am still hurting.
i stayed with someone who was verbally cruel for years because i kept believing the next apology would be different. the day i finally left, i felt numb too. i'm really glad you're choosing YOU now, even if it doesn't feel real yet.
Thanks for that and am glad that you can relate coz i kinda thought that i was in denial..but now when i look back i see that i have been trying to move on while still dating even though there were times i thought that i could forgive him and we could be happy and i could forget everything..but now am okay which was kinda crazy to me..Thank you again stranger,,i also hope that you find the You that you are looking for
Really sorry that you are going through a difficult time it can't be easy especially after 5 years . It sounds like you were in a tough relationship. I think it's very brave for you to want to do something about it , I'm in a similar situation. Since it'd fresh I would suggest for now to just allow yourself to process what you are feeling better it's a lot . Just begin with today , I and many of the amazing ppl are here to try and support one another . Thanks for sharing
Thanks for the comment,,it means a lot more than you can even imagine..and I hope you find wat you are looking for btw and remember to stay strong no matter the temptation
@EasyBreezy234 That's absolutely fine and you are most welcome Thankyou for the kind words I really appreciate it and your support. Be kind to yourself, one day at a time