We dated 1.5 years and he was perfect. He made gifts himself, gifted flowers on every month of our anniversary, even just like 4 months and on a random day he will buy something, he came when I was ill. he was always by my side. yes we did fight and threatened each other to break up but never did beavuse we talked through and said how scary it is without each other. also we only fought only on long distance, unfortunately his mom and sister live in a different country and he really loves them so each holiday he foes to them. this summer isn't an exception. Now he was gone from the beginning of July... at that time it was hard because he rarely wrote, rarely called me sunshine, rarely told he loved me and as an anxious person like me it was hard and he said I was over dramatic and much more stuff like that and then he just gave up, I said let's break up and he said finally, yes, and all the mean stuff like he never gave a fuck. but still said he loves me but there is no way to continue this. I was begging him to come back but he didn't and then I wrote "do you miss me?" he replied: "why should i" I am scared. I do not know how to live without him.
Last updated on:2026-07-26T01:50:09+05:30
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iwas reminding myself not to judge the whole relationship by those last painful messages. my ex said things during the breakup that sounded like he never cared, but time showed me people can say cruel things when they're shutting a door.
before he went away to see his family this summer, did you feel loved and secure with him most of the time, or had this distance been building for a while?
everything was perfect before he went
i'd never stop thinking about my ex because he had become part of every little routine in my day. i honestly believed i'd feel that way forever, and i was wrong, even though i couldn't see it then.
you got this girl I’m so sorry that you feel this way no one deserves that but there are so many people that believe in you I promise you’ll be just fine!! ❤️🩹
Im sorry you are going through this. it is hard when someone can be so kind and thoughtful and then they become distant and cold. We always want to hold onto the kind part of them.
and the thing is I think that it his sister that might had an impact on him, but Idc BUT FUCK, I need to give back his things IN A MONTH, FUCK AGAIN