How i found joy again after 70 days of no contact
70 days no contact. yesterday i got a date, it was amazing, romantic and intimate. my ex almost didn't crossed my mind, i was just happy. no boundaries, no fear, just feeling moved on and relief. yo
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Is it normal to feel guilt moving on after a breakup?
our break up was the 7th of July. no contact started on the 11th. just moved to England a few days ago and a man of my uni i was talking to a little during summer learned it and proposed me to drink
Why can't i let go? moving on feels impossible
i says as the sun is still in the sky. but truth is? I still spray his perfume on my plushie because i cannot sleep without it. I feel so pathetic because while i cannot sleep without a reminder of hi
Why tomorrow feels so heavy for me
A few months ago, we had planned for me to go to his town for one week from 31st of august to the 7 of Septembe. To say goodbye before my exchange year this day is tomorrow and i am obviously not goi
Ever wondered if they even think about us?
here we are, compting the days of no contact, waking up thinking about wich day we are since the end. but for them? it's a normal day, they don't know how much no contact days we are at, they just don
Why did he lie? my heart is breaking before leaving
in two weeks i am leaving for my exchange year in durham, England. when we talked about stopping being together before i leave so we don't do long distance,, he told me that i don't have to hesitate t
Why did he unfollow me on ig after 41 days?
we haven't talked since 41 days, and he just unfollowed me today, i don't even understand why. he let me follow him but stopped following me. obviously i unfollowed him too. craziest part is that he
Did he ever care? analyzing his breakup text
so we weren't a couple but a situationship, cuz i am leaving to study in England for one year and he doesn't want distance at all cuz it broke his last relationship. but i fell in love, it wasn't casu
Why can't i sleep after my breakup?
since the break up i sleep pretty bad i got to bed at midnight but only fell asleep at 5 am, i am so exhausted mentally and physically, i just want eveything to stop so every advice is welcomed ðŸ™ð
Surviving a new month without my ex
so except for those who just breaks new contacts we are entering a new month where we didn't talked to our ex, so i hope everyone will have the strenght to survive this month and to move on!! love u g
Why did he like my story after we broke up?
we ended beginning of July, i posted m'y July dump and he liked it. i was happy to do this dump, to show i was happy even without him, that i did things, cuz he only saw the pic on the left bottom whe
Why do i keep forgetting the good times after a breakup?
since a trauma i had in 2022, now everytime i lose contact with a friend, lover or anything, in two weeks, i lose all the happy memories i have and i'm not with my ex since three weeks wich means i al
Why i decided to move on after seeing him with someone new
since he posted that girl two days aog i realised i had to change before i had this mantra : "if i wait it will never be me, if i move on it will never be him" and was hésitant to move on. so i waite
Why did he post another girl after our breakup?
while together he never posted me, never reposted the stories of us I made, even one where we were only saying landscape and his back. it's been two weeks no contacts and almost three weeks break up.
Why does he ignore me when things get tough?
his family live in the town next mine, we have big fires encercling us but him, leave hours away i posted stories with this picture he knows how bad the situation is but he still don't reach out to k
Why did he call it a situationship?
so it wasn't a boyfriend but a situationship, we couldn't date cuz i'm leaving to England. i didn't mind long distance but he did. turn out it was an excuse. i knew he wasn't in love yet but i truste
Why i couldn't share my cheerleading win with my ex
heyy so i'm a cheerleader, usually i am basing (as a backspot) but i got to be a fly! wich is my dream but i am way too tall but i got to do it thanks to experimented cheerleaders ! i wanted to reach
Why did he change for another woman so fast?
so perhaps you heard about the movie "obsession", an horror movie my ex couldn't sleep after watching horror movies, he only saw Scream for me cuz it's my favourite movie and i told him it wasn't real
Does no contact really work?
there is a théory that by giving no contact to mens, they are happy at first but then realize their loss. at first, he was ignoring my stories, not answering, liking, everything. a few days laters he
Did he move on too quickly?
he stopped things with me Monday and since this, i have a LOT of signs he is talking to a new girl. i feel so sick, and want to vomit. we never dated cuz i was leaving the country, but i gave him my
Should i reach out one last time?
We met three months ago but we live a few hours away, except his parents live next to me. We were supposed to break up in September cuz i'm leaving the country and he didn't wanted that big long dista