Why did he unfollow me on ig after 41 days?

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we haven't talked since 41 days, and he just unfollowed me today, i don't even understand why. he let me follow him but stopped following me. obviously i unfollowed him too.

craziest part is that he still have all his exes on Instagram but yea even for that i guess i'm not enough right ☺️

we only have each other snap now but for how long lol. could delete him on Snapchat but i am too attached at the pictures...

Last updated on:2026-08-24T00:02:02+05:30

Comments (24)

NovaFlex552
NovaFlex552 8 hrs ago

🥲🥲😌

Priyanshu
Priyanshu yesterday

“I’m sorry you’re going through this again. Being rejected after giving someone your best can really hurt. I hope things get easier for you this time. ❤️”

estellemrt
estellemrt 5 hrs ago

that is so sad indeed but we will all heal 💕

tryingmybest
tryingmybest 2 days ago

as someone who unfollowed my ex on everything, this was purely to protect myself because i cared about her so much. i made sure to end things off nicely by wishing her well. but yea, it's probably because you meant a lot in many ways rather than the opposite.

estellemrt
estellemrt 5 hrs ago

well that's not the way here honestly but i'm glad to see différents point of views !!!

wingJen71
wingJen71 2 days ago

i'd keep the snapchat pictures for now if deleting them feels impossible. i did something similar with old photos, and eventually i stopped needing to delete everything in one dramatic moment.

estellemrt
estellemrt 2 days ago

it really helps me knowing that, thanks you for this point of view

xuser36624
xuser36624 2 days ago

hello

estellemrt
estellemrt 2 days ago

hey

GlitchFox575
GlitchFox575 3 days ago

I personally don’t think you should block. get to a place where you don’t care. become indifferent.

estellemrt
estellemrt 3 days ago

i really love this tbh, like blocking is caring

thev
thev 3 days ago

I think it is absolutely insane how Instagram is basically a place where we only have people we don't even really know. Every single guy I’ve ever had something with—whether it was just sex or some kind of connection—is no longer on my Instagram. wtf.

estellemrt
estellemrt 3 days ago

i can understand ! personnally i have +1000 followers so i don't lose time deleting people, and he still had his exs so it's not the same

SorryWorld1
SorryWorld1 3 days ago

i feel this, but do you think keeping that snapchat connection is actually comforting you, or is it keeping you tied to the possibility that he'll come back?

estellemrt
estellemrt 3 days ago

honestly i don't even think or hope he wills comeback, if there was no pics, i would have deleted him

ChillXOXO598
ChillXOXO598 3 days ago

BLICK HIMM

estellemrt
estellemrt 3 days ago

really ?? idk what to do

ChillXOXO598
ChillXOXO598 yesterday

@estellemrt Yess if he even had the audacity to unfollow you to breakup with you to even not want to talk to you to have HIS EXES STOP LOOKING AT THOSE SNAPCHAT PICTURES AND BLOCK HIM ON EVERYTHINGGG You shouldn't make him have access to you whenever you deserve better gurl

gresss52
gresss52 3 days ago

this kind of tiny social media move can hurt WAY more than it should. i've been there, staring at who followed who and convincing myself it had to mean something about my worth, when really i was just desperate for any clue about what they were feeling.

estellemrt
estellemrt 3 days ago

omg exactly, it's just desperation for any clue, i spent the night trying to find a clue in this movie when he just didn't wanted me anymore lol

DashWave452
DashWave452 3 days ago

girl he probably unfollowed you because he was jealous that you were GLOWING. my ex and i unfollowed eachother when we broke up and i miss him so much but he was such a hypocrite.

estellemrt
estellemrt 3 days ago

girll you did well unfollowing him!! the hypocrites doesn't deserve your heart !! and yes you're right he's jealous thanks you!

vampire
vampire 3 days ago

Maybe you look great or happy without him and he notices it, he notices your glow coming back and that bothers him, I don't have my exes blocked either but I do have him, because I still miss him, maybe that's why he doesn't want to follow you

estellemrt
estellemrt 3 days ago

thanks for this point of view that i didn't have. indeed i glowed since, so if it's the reason, i'm really glad :)