here we are, compting the days of no contact, waking up thinking about wich day we are since the end.
but for them? it's a normal day, they don't know how much no contact days we are at, they just don't care and move on.
Last updated on:2026-08-27T16:05:43+05:30
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counting the days was keeping me tied to him, so i slowly stopped checking the number and started treating each day as one day i chose myself. some days felt huge, some barely felt like progress.
i love the fact you stopped checking, it's the way of healing 💕
i wonder if the hardest part for you is missing them, or knowing they might not be counting the days with you?
i don't miss them no more, so it's the fact that they never cared
i’ve thought about this so many times. i used to count every single day of no contact while wondering if my ex had even noticed, and that thought used to hurt like hell.
i totally understand, knowing it doesn't matters as much for them is scary