Did he move on too quickly?

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he stopped things with me Monday and since this, i have a LOT of signs he is talking to a new girl.
i feel so sick, and want to vomit. we never dated cuz i was leaving the country, but i gave him my vcard.
i think the distance was just an excuse to end things. cuz if he loved me, he would never have moved on that fast.

Last updated on:2026-07-14T11:44:05+05:30

Comments (14)

CielBleu
CielBleu 2 wks ago

if you felt that there was two sided emotions then there were. people handle love life and emotions differently. please be kind to yourself

estellemrt
estellemrt 2 wks ago

i love this way of seeing thank you, really

kjxarles
kjxarles 2 wks ago

i kept trying to figure out if their reason was real or just an excuse, and honestly it only kept me stuck.

estellemrt
estellemrt 2 wks ago

it helps me seeing that tbh, i don't want to stay stuck but i can't help but think about it

oddbrner0
oddbrner0 2 wks ago

finding out my ex was already talking to someone else days after we ended. i felt physically sick too.

estellemrt
estellemrt 2 wks ago

thats' terrible, are you feeling better now?

IcyTruth7
IcyTruth7 2 wks ago

did you actually find out he's talking to someone new, or is it mostly little signs that are making your mind race right now?

estellemrt
estellemrt 2 wks ago

mostly littles signs but the type of signs who couldn't be explained by something else, and my intuition is always right on those types of things

danyphantom
danyphantom 2 wks ago

you dodged a bullet, you deserve a love that is reciprocated!💗

estellemrt
estellemrt 2 wks ago

that's a beautiful way to say it, i love it 🩷

Majcix
Majcix 2 wks ago

girl, this thing just saved you. Know ur worth and enjoy life

estellemrt
estellemrt 2 wks ago

i love u!! and yea leaving for my exchange year soon sooo i guess i won't have regrets

Majcix
Majcix 2 wks ago

It might be just escape from reality, but I would agree If u truly love someone, u wouldn't behave this way or u are to immature to escape to someone else. I can just assume how do u feel, but in this case trust me u didn't lose anything.

estellemrt
estellemrt 2 wks ago

well he told me when stoping things "you seems attached a lot wich is not my case" so yea probably not love, but you're so right, it's not my loss 💕