We met three months ago but we live a few hours away, except his parents live next to me. We were supposed to break up in September cuz i'm leaving the country and he didn't wanted that big long distance, but i wanted to try. So our situationship turned toxic, i was unconsciously mad at him cuz he didn't wanted to try long distance with me. Was overthinking everything. That's when he decided on tuesday to stop everything, so i wouldn't be too much hurt. He did by text cuz we're far away. But this weekend he is going to his parents house next to mine to take some belongings. I'm hesitating to ask him to meet up, to say goodbye in real life too. But also he is Moving his appartement so he might says he doesn't have the Time for that. So should i ask him to meet ?
Last updated on:2026-07-11T01:40:13+05:30
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i had a similar ending where the distance and timing became the fight itself
that must be so hard
the “maybe one last goodbye will make it easier” feeling is so real. i begged for one last talk once and walked away feeling even more raw because i wanted answers he couldn’t give
that's really sad :( i just asked him to meet but he told me it wasn't a good idea so i was feeling bad. but your comment is making me better, knowing that meeting wouldn't have changed anything
do you feel like seeing him would help you accept it, or are you hoping that face to face he might choose to stay?
honestly both. i don't see myself Moving on without hugging him one last time. and also discussing might change his mind even though i don't think so