Why did he change for another woman so fast?

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so perhaps you heard about the movie "obsession", an horror movie
my ex couldn't sleep after watching horror movies, he only saw Scream for me cuz it's my favourite movie and i told him it wasn't really that's scary and we slept together after that.
i wanted to see Obsession but not alone and he told me "you have to find someone else cuz personnally there is no way i'm watching that"
so i saw it alone and loved it
and on letterboxd (an app where you rate movies), he added Obsession on his watchlist
it's only two weeks today that we separated and 11 days no contact and he's already ready to watch a real horror movie with another girl, i feel so sick and nauseous :(
tell me what can i do to stay healthy lmao

Last updated on:2026-07-22T23:15:32+05:30

Comments (9)

TimeEater2
TimeEater2 4 days ago

do you know for sure he's watching it with someone else or is your mind connecting the dots because the timing is brutal right now?

estellemrt
estellemrt 3 days ago

well i'm not sure but i don't see any other option on why he suddenly wants to watch it

BlankoStank
BlankoStank 4 days ago

my ex used to swear he hated certain things too, then suddenly loved them with the next girl. that part HURT because i kept wondering why i wasn't enough to get that version of him.

estellemrt
estellemrt 3 days ago

i keep wondering the same thing even though it is unhealthy :(

cheekz
cheekz 4 days ago

ugh thats hard im so sorry 😞 its tough watching them move on while we struggle to even get out of bed sometimes just remember one day you will meet someone who is better in every way possible he love you loudly and fiercely and will stop at nothing to make sure your happy

estellemrt
estellemrt 3 days ago

that's incredible, i cannot wait for all of us to meet our futur husband/wife/partner 🥹

cheekz
cheekz 3 days ago

@estellemrt it will happen when your ready hold on to that hope you didnt loose him he lost you

sadphoenix
sadphoenix 4 days ago

I dont have any advice for you, except maybe to try to stop stalking him. but him willing to do that for someone else and not you is a reflection of him not being right for you.
I watched that movie too! you should tell me what you liked about it

estellemrt
estellemrt 3 days ago

yea i try that, hurts that he downloaded this app for me and only have me on it
but i loved this movie cuz it shows how some men do everything to have you, then don't want you anymore and makes you crazy, did you loved the movie ?