Why do i feel abandoned by my best friend?
every since my friend got a boyfriend i just totally feel abandoned. I noticed she was confiding in me less and I confronted her about it and she said she'd change but its like a week (or two? i can't
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Why i deleted every message after the breakup
deleted every message I ever sent her before our break up. wish I could delete her messages too but thats not how discord works. I *could* block her but i dont know... she's still in my current friend
Why i can't stop thinking about the future we never had
one of the many things I wanted to say to you is... i never wanted to think of the future, but that's what *you* wanted so I relented, I even told u that. the future is never guaranteed so I like liv
Why can't i stop rereading her messages?
we broke up 19 days ago and i told her it'll take time and trust building before i can be friends with her, she said she was okay with that and she'd wait, the info must not have sunk in for her becau
Was our relationship really that great?
sometimes i gotta look back on our relationship and remember all the hard times, all the times my needs weren't being met, and when it "got better" it was likely her people-pleasing me. i don't think
Why did i check her social media?
why would i do that? why would i put myself through that? now my feelings are hurt đ. someone made a comment how they'd like a partner who is super loyal and clingy, and another person said thats e
Why am i still grieving after staying friends?
me and my ex decided to stay friends; we had a talk, she apologized for how she hurt me. i told her we can still text, but i dont want to be alone with her yet, we can hang out with our friend group.
How can my bff stay friends with my ex?
i feel really betrayed. my ex hurt me and i thought my bff was my ride or die, but she decided to stay friends with my ex. i cant trust her now... i feel like i cant trust anyone đ
Why is letting her go so hard?
didnt think I'd be back to this app but here i am... My gf basically told me she resented me and she isnt happy and she might cheat on me, even though throughout our entire relationship i asked if i m
Almost a year after the breakup: still healing
its been almost a year since me and my ex broke up. I blocked or deleted him on most platforms months ago. ive been saving screenshots of how he used to abuse me... im considering deleting them.
Feeling Like I'm Holding On to a Dying Relationship
I knew she was different since our first break up: less affectionate, less interested in me but I asked her if things were okay and she said they were so I tried to trust her. yesterday she said she's
Am i just delaying the inevitable after getting back with my ex?
i dont even know if this post belongs here, but I got back together with my gf. kinda feeling like im delaying the inevitable, but im selfish and want to be loved. I feel like im mourning it's future
my ex broke up with me (technically) yesterday
I honestly feel so discarded. we both made mistakes and instead of trying to repair things with me she went straight for accusing me of the worst and hurting her (even though she did things thats hurt
is it weird to keep the messages?
Is it weird or messed up to keep messages from a toxic relationship not because you want them back, but to have as evidence they hurt you? Like yes, this message is proof im not crazy, and they were a
I think ive given up on being happy
I think ive given up on being happy. all I do is survive now and.. whats the point in that?
one time my ex told me he needed space for 3 days and i wasnt allowed to talk to him but he'd send me lengthy texts on how his day was going
one time my ex told me he needed space for 3 days and i wasnt allowed to talk to him but he'd send me lengthy texts on how his day was going. was this a control tactic or am I overthinking?
Anger. to my ex: fuck you for mirroring me
Anger. to my ex: fuck you for mirroring me, people pleasing me, resenting me when you didn't speak up about your needs, then withdrawing. fuck you for being a lesson. and to the one guy who acted like
a guy reached out to me saying he was interested in dating me
a guy reached out to me saying he was interested in dating me. after 3 months of getting out of my last relationship i thought, why not? I told him we'd have to get to know each other a little better
I dont even want him back
I dont even want him back, if he ever messaged me I'd ignore it, but i think I don't fully block him because I'm scared discord will delete all our messages, and I want evidence of all the shit ways h
I can feel myself using this app less and less but i can't tell if it's because I'm actually healing
I can feel myself using this app less and less but i can't tell if it's because I'm actually healing, or if I feel like a broken record in my pain and I feel shame for posting about it
been working on my physical health and learning how to crochet
been working on my physical health and learning how to crochet. focusing on myself and taking care of myself is hard but I've gone too long not doing it
I keep trying to make friends but it hasn't been working out
I keep trying to make friends but it hasn't been working out. for example, I met a guy the day before yesterday, and yesterday we talked throughout the day. today he messages me saying he can't be my
I wish I could sleep off depression as if it were
I wish I could sleep off depression as if it were the common cold
one thing that always irked me when i was with my ex was when I'd try to introduce him to my friends or my family member and he'd say
one thing that always irked me when i was with my ex was when I'd try to introduce him to my friends or my family member and he'd say, "I'll be nice, but I won't be their friend." or when I'd tell him
i don't know why I was worried about him initiating contact after our "one month no contact then we try to be friends rule
i don't know why I was worried about him initiating contact after our "one month no contact then we try to be friends rule," he didnt; maybe he's waiting for *me* to initiate contact? I dont think i w
everything was wonderful when it was just surface level but as soon as it got too deep
everything was wonderful when it was just surface level but as soon as it got too deep, he bounced đ. seems like it's been like that for most of my past relationships and now I'll always be scared
me and my ex used to use telegram (its an app) to talk
me and my ex used to use telegram (its an app) to talk, but also so did me and my bff. after my break up I asked my bff if we can use a different app so i wouldn't feel compelled to obsess over old me