didnt think I'd be back to this app but here i am...
My gf basically told me she resented me and she isnt happy and she might cheat on me, even though throughout our entire relationship i asked if i made her happy, if we were okay, and if there was anything we could work on together to make things better. Almost every time she told me i was an amazing gf, she was happy, and we were okay. The times we had issues we made plans to work on it together.
She told me all this while i was having a bad mental health day, and right before bed... could barely sleep. She said she still loves me and wants to be with me but doesnt know how it'll work.
Im devastated. This was the most healthy relationship I've ever had-- or so i thought-- now everything we had feels like a lie. I feel disrespected. How could a person who "loves" and "cares" about me, do this to me? (Rhetorical question)
Last updated on:2026-06-19T20:59:11+05:30
Comments (4)
i had an ex sit on their unhappiness for months while telling me everything was fine, then dropped it all on me at once. that feeling of realizing you were having a completely different relationship than they were is BRUTAL.
the part about her saying she might cheat would have shattered me too.
when she told you all this, did she actually talk about concrete ways to fix things together, or was it mostly her telling you how unhappy she'd been?
keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️