since he posted that girl two days aog i realised i had to change
before i had this mantra : "if i wait it will never be me, if i move on it will never be him" and was hésitant to move on. so i waited. and it is now another girl.
since that, i deleted him from a lot of applications, unfollowing him everywhere except on my main ig and my snap cuz i cannot bring myself to delete the pictures yet, it's only been three weeks today.
but i deleted screenshots of our conversations.
little steps by little steps and i know i'll be okay.
Last updated on:2026-07-29T19:16:32+05:30
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i’ve been through that “if i move on it won’t be him” mindset too, and damn, it kept me waiting for someone who was already choosing something else
that is so real, i hope you stopped waiting now 🩷
you see him with that girl, what hurts the most right now, losing him or feeling like you were waiting for nothing?
honestly losing him hurts the most :(
keeping old photos and messages because deleting them felt like admitting it was really over. those little steps you’re taking are huge, even if your heart still feels stuck there.
that's so real! but like conversations is hard but deletings pictures of us..' i don't know if i'll ever could
your doing the right thing even if you did get back together theres a reason we call them our exes
you're right, we cannot delete the reason we're not with them anymore
I love your Mantra. How are things with the fires?
that's really kind for asking ! the fire is still next to my town, today the wind will be really strong so it's the day who will determinate everything
@estellemrt Living in Australia we have gotten used to dealing with bushfire. Please be safe and don't hesitate about leaving.
I know the feeling
courage