well guys I was in a relationship with a boy it's a long distance relationship he's the one who was saying I love you and stuff like that I didn't live him at first by then I fell for him Idk how I get so attached easily he's been giving me attention alotttt and know he just keep ghosting me so asked him what's wrong he said I'm busy I couldn't text you matter of fact this been going on for days and he always send a text at 3am one day I said we need to talk and then he said about what i said. what ever it doesn't matter anyway he kept consisting for me to tell him I said what's been keeping you so busy that you couldn't even use your phone for 10 hours (metter of fact I've been delivered for 10h every single day and I didn't say anything) then he said I use it but what should I do I got things to do I said ohh OK then he said why are you texting me cold and stuff I said I don't he said why I love you I love much motlre then you think and I'm slowly starting to lose interest in him and sometimes I keep deleting the msg on snap and he kept saying why are you even deleting the texts he said it makes mad seeing you deleting text
Last updated on:2026-07-25T00:25:49+05:30
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i get why you're thinking about ghosting him, but i felt better after being honest once and then walking away if nothing changed. i didn't want to carry the guilt of disappearing when i already knew how much being ghosted hurt.
yes you're right
has he actually changed since you told him how this makes you feel, or does he just reassure you with "i love you" and then keep doing the same thing?
this is what i said " I might sound annoying because i talked about this a lot I wanna ask are you even busy or you're just ghosting me because I literally reached a point that I can't even handle this shit anymore you've never been like this and I do remember that one day you were busy and at the end of the day you just said I'm sorry I've been busy that's why I couldn't text you but now you changed a lot I don't know what's happening the only thing that I want right know is a clear explanation I can't keep acting like I'm fine " and he replied by saying "You have been texting me and deleting what do you want me to think about you tell me what do you want i will try to do " I said "I don't even know if you're busy or just ghosting anymore bit it might sound normal to you but it's not As I said you might think this is normal but it's not I rather getting blocked then just get ghosted and all of this that you're doing it just keeps making me hate you" he said "Do the things that makes you happy because don’t know what to say and how to make you understand me"
the constant attention at first and then suddenly waiting all day for one message had me questioning myself. that hot and cold stuff wore me down more than i wanted to admit.
tbh it's kinda hard to deal with it I just hate when people ghost you for the dumbest reason I'm still questioning myself is he even busy because I can't trust him( matter of fact I really do have a trusting problem specially with men) there are people who runs businesses working all day and they can still text you a "hey" he's definitely lying and he was the one interested first texting all day the first he said I love you and stuff like that
His behavior sounds toxic and full of red flags. I think your intuition to walk away with no explanation is wise.
that's what I wanted to do leave him without am explanation but I can't something keep stopping me idk what to do I'm gonna send you what he said yesterday
@SweetSun307 this is what i said \" I might sound annoying because i talked about this a lot I wanna ask are you even busy or you\'re just ghosting me because I literally reached a point that I can\'t even handle this shit anymore you\'ve never been like this and I do remember that one day you were busy and at the end of the day you just said I\'m sorry I\'ve been busy that\'s why I couldn\'t text you but now you changed a lot I don\'t know what\'s happening the only thing that I want right know is a clear explanation I can\'t keep acting like I\'m fine \" and he replied by saying \"You have been texting me and deleting what do you want me to think about you tell me what do you want i will try to do \" I said \"I don\'t even know if you\'re busy or just ghosting anymore bit it might sound normal to you but it\'s not As I said you might think this is normal but it\'s not I rather getting blocked then just get ghosted and all of this that you\'re doing it just keeps making me hate you\" he said \"Do the things that makes you happy because don't know what to say and how to make you understand me
@Sweetsun261 He seems argumentative and bad-tempered. This type of person often only gets worse in a relationship. I think you don't owe him any explanation, and his replies to you don't show any sense of accountability. I feel like blocking him can help protect your peace.
or at least not continuing to engage with him. I think his hot and cold behavior is a bad sign that things would likely only get worse in a relationship with him.