for the past couple of weeks iv questioned on what to do with my ex fiance things I have my engagement ring I have so many personal things a book a wrote us both filled with photos of us memories of our relationship I even have his jacket but I’m at the point now where I want to love again I met a boy who is really amazing and I’m ready to fall for again what shall I do with all the stuff iv debated on burning it to ashes or sending him it back but I just want to forget now and move on what do I do?
that book is the last place we exist the last photos the last evidence of I thought was a genuine relationship but it was all just a lie from the beginning but to me it was real.
I’m ready to say goodbye
Last updated on:2026-01-09T02:30:49+05:30
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what are you most afraid of losing right now. the memories, or the version of you that loved him
I think I’m scared of letting go of what I thought was real but I need to move on with my life as he thought he had ruined my life.
i tucked everything away when i felt overwhelmed, gave myself space to breathe, then decided later from a calmer place.
i kept my engagement ring and a box of “us” for so long, like proof it was real. letting go felt like erasing myself, not him. that part REALLY hurt
that’s the bit I’m struggling with as it was a controlling relationship I fell in love with a person who wasn’t real but to me it was.
I don’t want to be reminded by the heart break but I want to move forward I don’t want to dwell.