I reached out for help to you, despite us being exes but you were the only person i could talk to. Asking for help is already hard enough from someone like me, troubled and traumatised. You even called me problematic and told me I was the worse person you have ever talked to because i keep giving you hints that i want to be complimented and not asking you directly. Despite being hurt, I took your advice to start asking directly, no living hints, no confusion and no misunderstandings. I did what you exactly wanted me to do, but why did you reply with "Idk what you want me to do" when I clearly asked for comfort during the lowest point of my life? Your reply made me realize why I avoid reaching out for help and keeping things to myself, bottling all up, you're very confusing Peter. I hope you realize how much pain you've contributed to my suffering.
Last updated on:2026-01-11T18:45:04+05:30
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when you reached out to him, were you hoping for comfort specifically from him, or just from someone who knew you during the worst parts of your life
reaching out as an ex because they felt safe, then getting labeled “too much” or “problematic.” i did exactly what he asked too, and still got shut down. that kind of rejection cuts deep
Iam sorry that you felt this and that he replied with coldness like that .
I hope things get better soon also time will prove to him that you were such a good person and that he lost a true one but when he is back by then you are changed and not the girl waiting for him anymore . Iam sorry again and I was in your situation I reached him out for help because I were overthinking so strong and down but he replied very coldly that made me regret my whole life and decided from that day that “ he is not here for me whatever how strong I needed him “ so just keep it in mind .
he doesn't realize, but reaching out to people directly can be beneficial
sorry if ive made grammar errors 😭 i cried while typing this