Why does it hurt this much?

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Why does it hurt this much?
We’ve been together for seven years. We were supposed to get married next year build a home together and share our lives with two cats and a dog.
Today he told me he hasn’t been happy for months some days he feels 80–90% happy other days only 20%. He admitted he’s developed feelings for a girl at work though he still has feelings for me. Then he said we need to break up… and now it’s over.
I’m in so much pain. I still love him. I’m terrified I’ll never meet someone else that no one will ever love me again. He says he wants us to stay friends but I don’t even know what I want. Right now I just feel numb and broken. The man I thought I’d spend my life with my best friend the one person I could truly be myself with has shattered me.

Last updated on:2026-01-30T20:19:03+05:30

Comments (5)

dembogur
dembogur a mth ago

Feels the same here. Just saying you're not alone in feeling like it's too late.

a3nna
a3nna a mth ago

everything is going to be okay we will get through this together 💕

Scarsfads
Scarsfads a mth ago

Do not be friends please!!!! Work out, make goals and ignore his messages.

Drowning
Drowning a mth ago

I know for a fact that you’re going to heal from this and you’ll have your choice of all the men interested in a relationship with you

Chirag
Chirag a mth ago

Same thing happened with me, being together for 7 years and i have been given same explanation.
idk why are people so emotionless.