My girlfriend of four years my first love broke up with me because of distance and the stress of both past and future challenges. It’s been four months, and now she seems to be dating someone new even though she still occasionally checks my social media.
I feel blindsided confused and honestly a little foolish for obsessing over it.
Last updated on:2026-02-26T20:34:18+05:30
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she check u account she wan know do u have gf move on or repost hurt. I think that her rebound since y'all first love each other she not over u if ex happy other she not bother check many times
do you think her checking your social media is giving you hope? or is it just making it harder to accept what’s happening?
i caught myself obsessing over who they were dating or if they viewed my socials, it only kept me stuck.
four years, first love… that kind of bond doesn’t just disappear. i had an ex who said distance and “life stress” too, then started seeing someone new while still watching my stories. it made me feel replaceable and stupid for caring. i wasn’t stupid. you’re not either that confusion is real.