Why i blocked my situationship neighbor

been 6 days no contact. we weren't dating but we've been seeing each other like we were in a relationship since November. he ended up not wanting a relationship but we still acted like we were in one. he even gave me flowers in Valentine's Day lmao. he was the worst when it came to mixed signals. well I called him out when I felt the vibe was off and he spewed a bunch of crap and i was thoroughly done with it. he ended up ghosting me instead of giving me an explanation as to why he changed his tone with me when everything was fine or so I thought. we were still following each other on socials so I decided to block him because I don't want to see his name anymore. oh yeah, did I mention that he's my neighbor? yup lives across the street from me. but I never really saw him before we met on a dating app. lol how we met was kind of funny. anyways, he's an asshole and I'm finally washing my hand of him for good.

Last updated on:2026-03-11T05:58:10+05:30

Comments (10)

SW25
SW25 22 hrs ago

I've been in a situationship for 2 years now...2 days now no contact it hurts more then the break up I had of an 8 year relationship

NovaBeat722
NovaBeat722 17 hrs ago

seriously, same. I just got out of a really bad relationship back in October and the pain from this situationship ending is seriously worse. it's crazy.

loveburst
loveburst 24 hrs ago

wait he lives across the street?? that part would drive me a little crazy. do you actually run into him outside or has it been one of those weird neighbor situations where you both just pretend the other doesn’t exist?

NovaBeat722
NovaBeat722 17 hrs ago

I actually never knew he lived over there. I've never seen him. but we met on a dating app and figured out we are actually neighbors lol. I haven't seen him since it ended either. he works second shift and I rarely leave my house so that helps

NovaWave601
NovaWave601 yesterday

you are smart to block!

NovaBeat722
NovaBeat722 17 hrs ago

thank you 😊

Coldblood
Coldblood yesterday

honestly the blocking move made sense to me. when someone keeps popping up on your socials it keeps the loop going in your brain, i had to cut that off too just to get some peace.

NovaBeat722
NovaBeat722 17 hrs ago

yeah I was kind of driving myself crazy checking to see if he was online because I wanted him to message me.

acheHeart
acheHeart yesterday

i had a guy pull the same situationship thing on me, acted like we were basically together then suddenly “didn’t want labels.” the flowers on valentine’s too? yeah that kind of mixed signal stuff messes with your head for real.

NovaBeat722
NovaBeat722 17 hrs ago

seriously who does that? it's like he didn't understand why I was confused when he showed up with flowers.. I was like well I didn't get you anything because this is a romantic holiday and I thought we were just friends. it was super weird.