So basically we met on Tinder about two years ago and from the start we had a really strong connection. We spoke every day for about eight months before we actually met because of the distance and the fact that he had his boys most of the time. We argued a lot about me wanting to visit, but eventually we did meet and the connection in person felt just as real.
In these two years we’ve only seen each other about four times, but we’ve talked every day. At one point we had a huge argument and went three months with no contact, but he eventually reached out to apologize and said he realized he messed up with the one true lady he had in his life. We started talking again and things actually felt deeper between us.
But the last few weeks something has felt off with him. We spoke a little two days ago but he wasn’t like his usual self, so I decided not to text again to see if he would reach out… and he hasn’t.
We share so much with each other and know everything about each other.I really dk love him.
Am I being delusional or do you think he feels the same? please help me💔
Last updated on:2026-03-11T20:43:00+05:30
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in these two years, when you needed reassurance or asked where things were going, how did he usually respond?
I told him that I wanted more...and he agreed and the next morning we talked he told me that he think we should let go since we not seeing each other and it's not fair to both of us and that he thinks I should be with someone else. I just said I understand. But the evening he continued texting like usual and because I didn't want to loose him I just went with the flow. Saying this to other people makes me feel embarrassed really.
i had something like that too, months of daily talking but barely seeing each other, and it felt SO real in my chest. when the energy suddenly shifted i kept asking myself the same thing, am i crazy for believing it was love?
Same...and the reason he confuses me so much is because he is always there when I need him I can ask him anything he'll do anything for me. that's so confusing why do all these things yet we not in a relationship
just feel the process of moving on
it's so hard
We were never in a relationship guys bear in mind this is a whole situationship 🤦♀️