I was going to wait until around 50-60 days of no contact and message her Ive reflected on everything and I think it would be good idea there is no begging or anything in the message I acknowledge what went wrong and ask how she is without putting on any pressure. I think she still has feelings for me she was saying she loves me until the day we break up
Last updated on:2026-03-12T14:54:03+05:30
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when you picture sending that message at day 50 or 60, are you hoping for a real conversation… or mostly hoping she’ll say she misses you too?
i waited almost two months thinking if i gave her space and showed i’d reflected she might be open to talking again. i remember that feeling of she still said she loved me, so maybe this isn’t fully over yet. that hope sits in your chest for a while.
just follow your heart if you think there are alot of reasons to be optimistic then follow your heart. Loving someone and be love by someone is the greatest gift that exist genuinely. But still think it 100times if it is worth and if you think or if you see that your ex have the same feelings or wants as you do. It is better that you two guys will work on your relationship not that one person only or just yourself
it is up to you to break the rule of no contact but during those days and you have youre reflection to your self - your worth, happiness and peace of mind then what is the reason behind of breaking that rule?
I would be truly happy with her, I'm willing to break no contact if I had another chance if not I will just have to accept it and move on even if I don't want to. but it wasn't the lack of love which broke us up which is why I am optimistic