I’m really STRUGGLING with this breakup ?. I think about him all day and dream about him all night. I thought we’d get married, have kids, and grow old together. I would’ve moved heaven and earth for this man. He was my lobster, my first real love, and now I’ve gone from talking to him every two seconds to never again. I feel like half of me is missing. He’s the only person I want right now to comfort me, and I’ll never hear that from him again ??. I’ve been crying all day just thinking about him moving on with someone new ??. It’s absolutely gutting me. I just want my best friend back. I want my safe space back. I wish this was all just one big nightmare.
Last updated on:2024-11-04T14:20:25+05:30
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I miss my best friend deeply. My Honey Bear, the other half of my heart. I desperately want to fix things, but I’m not sure I’ll ever get that opportunity.
sending hugs 🫂❤️
I’m really sorry to hear about what you’re going through. I’m experiencing something similar right now. She meant everything to me—my safe haven, my best friend, my soulmate—but I’m starting to believe she never loved me as deeply as I loved her. The way things ended has made me think she may not have loved me at all.
We eloped to marry and moved in together, but within the first two weeks, she started cheating on me with our neighbor. The following two months were a living nightmare. I kept asking her about it, but she would gaslight, manipulate, and lie without ever admitting the truth. By the time she finally confessed, it was too late; she hadn’t even ended the affair and continued to deceive me until I was exhausted and decided to end things. We took a break, during which she returned to her city, and while we were planning to give our relationship another shot, I discovered she was still in contact with that guy.
It hurts deeply, and I felt like I was losing myself day by day. The person I once was faded away right before her eyes, and she seemed completely indifferent. I’ll never forget one afternoon when we were lying together, sharing headphones and listening to music. I broke down in her arms, feeling like my soul was shattering, yet she couldn’t have cared less. Since she started seeing that guy, it felt like she was just toying with my emotions. It’s devastating to watch someone you love walk away and become a stranger, leaving you to grapple with the realization that they never truly loved you.
I know I’ve made mistakes after finding out about the affair, but they pale in comparison to what I was sacrificing for us. I tried reaching out to her, but she ignored me, which felt like the final blow—a clear sign that she never loved me in the first place. You can’t treat someone you love that way.
I’m trying to move on, hoping this was just a bad dream.
I believe we’ll both get through this. We may be apart now, but we’re on the path to healing.
Wishing you all the best and sending you blessings
It may feel like everything is falling apart right now, but I assure you, things will improve. I loved him wholeheartedly; he meant the world to me—he was my closest friend. However, true friends don’t hurt each other, and if they do, they should be eager to make amends. With friends like him, who needs enemies?! 😒 You'll start feeling better sooner than you realize. This, too, shall pass. Wishing you all the best and sending hugs your way! 🤗
I experienced this years ago. We connected, spent countless hours talking, and dated for an even longer time. Then, out of nowhere, distance became my only companion. The solid foundation of our relationship turned into a chasm that divided us. And then she was gone.
Fast forward a few years, and while I was at the mall waiting for some family, who should walk in with her fiancé? Yep.
The silver lining in all of this is that during those three years, I discovered the love of my life—the mother of my children and my best friend.
If my former love hadn't ended things, I wouldn't have become the person I am today or experienced all the incredible moments in my personal and professional life.
She gave me the most valuable gift I could ever ask for.
Freedom.
And for that, I am grateful every day.
Now that the closet door is shut, it’s time to leave the darkness behind. Open the front door to your new life and let the light flood in. It might be a bit challenging at first, but you’ll adapt. You’ll emerge stronger, wiser, and better for everything you've gone through. Don’t dwell too long on the past; instead, look ahead to the possibilities that await you.
You’ve got this!
It’s been a year, and I still find myself crying nearly every day. I really hope this comes to an end.
I'm wishing he would share something about us. 🥲
I'm in the same boat. I’m really sorry you’re experiencing this. I understand how incredibly painful it is—it’s the worst pain I’ve ever felt in my life.
Sending love your way 🥺 I'm also navigating a breakup from a few days ago. I can't promise things will get better right away, but please remember, you’re not alone in this.
🧡 Good luck
Thanks
@CailinRio Absolutely. I’ve been through this too, and it’s tough. Expressing yourself like this is a healthy step. You’ll move forward when you’re ready—just keep taking it one step at a time. 🧡
@Lainey Taking it one day at a time—that’s all I can manage for now. I know things will improve eventually; just waiting for that brighter day to come. ☀️🤍
@CailinRio Take your time with this. 🧡🧡 If you need to talk, vent, or let it all out, I’m here for you. Just remember, there’s someone out here who thinks you’re handling all of this like a champ—and it's coming from someone who’s been through plenty of tough times, too. 🤘🏼
@Lainey thank you so so much, i appreciate you 🥹
@CailinRio You’re welcome🧡🧡🧡