I was doing so good today, didn't talk to him , was so peaceful, then he texted me that he loves seeing my texts! I should ve ignored him, I asked him texting as friends? FWB? GF? then we started fighting again! after that I texted him staying mad at each other is painful physically and mentally, we should sit and talk, he didn't answer, went to his place, he didn't open the door! I feel like stupid for being an adult with a very immature man for the million times! he is an avoidant, been together for 18 months!
Last updated on:2026-03-03T20:45:05+05:30
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ugh this hurt to read. when he didn’t open the door, what did that feel like in your body? was it more anger or more heartbreak?
i get why you asked what you are to him, that uncertainty eats at you.
Just block his number and all socials. I know its semms harsh. But you need to protect yourself. I cannot do it because my ex is the mkther of my children. But I wish I could. If you have the chace. Do it. And focus on what you want for yourself.
I did blocked everything. I need my peace back.
uff one calm day, then one “i love your texts” and i’m right back at his door feeling small. i dated an avoidant for almost two years too, and i kept thinking this time he’ll show up different. it messes with your head so bad.
Exactly, why do we keep fooling ourselves! they never showed up, we always did! to me its very weird! He is my first avoidant and I ll make sure he is my last!
courage 🤍
Thank you guys for the support, I really appreciate it
I know he misses me but he won't do the work or say what he feels honestly, his ego is killing us and I am tired of always trying to keep us together and fix things, while I am the 10 years younger, I always put my ego aside and choose us. hopefully I won't do it anymore.
my ex gf posted a thirst trap it's crazy how much I valued her body then she does ths so I blocked her
block him for good
I did
that's really sad tbh
was he baiting you or something?