When they move on so quickly, and you’re left with an emptiness that feels like worthlessness. When they were the light guiding you through a dark tunnel. When they made you feel seen in a world that barely notices. How do you move forward from that? Knowing you were genuinely happy in a way you haven’t felt in so long—how do you just let go?
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I’m here for you, you’re definitely not alone. I feel terrible, and my self-esteem is at an all-time low. I hate being this down in front of the people I care about, and I just want this feeling to pass quickly. I’m holding onto hope that, in time, we’ll all make it through to the other side.
First, avoid making someone the center of your universe. Cultivate your own hobbies and friendships, so even when people leave, you still have a fulfilling life.
I understand how you feel. My ex-boyfriend ghosted me and moved away. We kept in touch for a while and even made plans to meet up. Now he’s married to someone else, and I’m still so confused. I can't help but feel like all my efforts were for nothing.
As for when the breakup happened, could you share more details to help us understand the situation better?
No ghosting but same story
Broken hearts don’t mend💔
My breakup was 25 days ago, and I still feel stuck. Time is helping a bit, but sleep doesn’t come easily. The heaviness is lifting from my body, and thankfully, the intense, unexpected social anxiety is easing up. We haven’t spoken since, and I have no idea how he’s doing. I think I’ll feel better if I know he’s okay—unless he’s completely over me.
You’re not alone; I’m right here with you in spirit. ❤️🩹
It’s tough. I’m five months out of a one and half-year relationship, and I just found out he’s already with someone else. My heart hurts so deeply. I feel like I’m lost in the dark, yet the truth is, two weeks ago I was okay and living my life without him. In another week or two, I’ll probably feel better again. The pain is intense right now, but it will fade. You find ways to cope, and over time, it eases. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Just remember, you’re not alone.
It’s been a month since the end of a two-year relationship, and I’m honestly terrified. I love this woman with everything in me, and I don’t know how—or even if I can—let go.
@DeepEyed It hurts now, but with time, the pain will ease. Allow yourself space to grieve—it’s important. And if you haven’t already, consider therapy; it’s been a lifesaver for me through all of this.