Three months ago, my FWB ended things, and I stopped talking to him. About two weeks ago, he reached out again, and I've been responding briefly and keeping things short. He called me today, and I asked why he still wants to talk if he doesn’t think we’re right for each other. He said, 'We’re just not meant for each other… but I still care about you, and that’s why I’m talking to you.'
I honestly have no idea what he means or what he wants. If anyone has any insight, please let me know. We’ve been on and off for three years, and I know I’m being foolish. My heart hurts.
Last updated on:2024-11-06T16:31:27+05:30
Comments (8)
Don't Let Him Back In:
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
He's too scared to end things completely, so he's dragging you along.
You know what's best for you. Don't let him manipulate your emotions.
He's Playing Games. He's keeping you as an option. Don't let him.
Protect your heart. It's time to move on and focus on yourself.
Girl, why are you still talking to him? He's clearly not worth your time or energy.
It sounds like he's keeping you on a string. It's tough, but you deserve someone who knows what they want and isn't afraid to commit.
Two things to consider:
He might still be interested in keeping things casual, wanting intimacy when it suits him.
Or, he may see you as more of a genuine friend now, with feelings that are purely platonic.
If neither of these align with what you want, it’s best to protect yourself from potential emotional stress. You did well on your own for those three months, so staying on that path could be best.