He cheated and treated me terribly, yet he’s moved on to a happy relationship while I’m still waiting for someone to love me. I’m longing for someone to truly see and care about me. It just feels so unfair—doesn’t karma exist? Why is life so unkind sometimes? Nothing seems to go right for me.
Last updated on:2024-11-14T13:26:20+05:30
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I recently went through a friend breakup where I was the one to end things. I had spent months agonizing over it and gradually grew distant from this person. Even though I started expressing my concerns toward the end, I had already had months to process it and feel a sense of relief rather than sadness over her absence. Give yourself time—love will come your way soon.
I feel the same way—my ex left me to get back with his ex, and they seem happy together, while I’m here feeling lonely, just hoping someone will notice me.
Do you really think an abusive person will change? I doubt she’ll ever be truly happy with him. It’s unfair and painful, but I understand.
Life can be unfair by nature. It might take time, but eventually, that feeling will fade.
I feel exactly the same. I hate knowing he’ll never regret leaving me because he has her now, living his best life while I’m left heartbroken and struggling. It makes me feel so replaceable, and I don’t understand how he could just throw me away after everything. I know it’s probably my mental health that keeps me thinking about him so much, but it’s hard to let go.
I feel exactly the same way. Why doesn’t he care about how much he’s hurt me? The person he used to be would have been devastated to know he made me feel like this.
I just want to remind you of a few things. First, remember that any issues are theirs, not yours—you don’t truly know what’s happening behind the scenes. They may look happy now, but everyone faces struggles eventually. I know it’s painful, and it feels unfair, but that’s no longer your burden to carry. Don’t wait for someone to love you; embrace the opportunity to love yourself. I was happy single before my last relationship—I went on adventures, did things solo, and truly enjoyed life. You can have that too! Don’t hold yourself back from discovering what you’re capable of. You are enough, and things will work out in ways you can’t yet see. Sending healing thoughts your way. ❤️
Yes, I agree, thank you. It’s not that I’m wishing karma on him; I just want to find my own happiness. Loving myself feels so difficult right now."
Trust me, their time will come. I’ve seen it happen before. If you believe in anything, believe in karma—it always comes around. The longer it takes, the harder it hits. Meanwhile, I’m still waiting for things to go my way.