heartbroken for the second time. Funny thing is, I remember posting before about how I had to push myself to love my girlfriend. I didn’t feel it at first, but she was so attached and wouldn’t let me go, so I didn’t want to hurt her or show her I wasn’t fully in it. For two years, I gave it my all, trying to fall for her, and eventually, I did. I truly fell for her, listened to her every day, and dreamed of marrying her.
But after seven months of me finally, genuinely loving her, things changed. She became distant, lacking the energy she used to have. I made the mistake of telling her I was afraid of losing her. Lately, she’s been hanging out alone with a guy—going to the movies and driving around. When I confronted her, she said, ‘We’re just friends.’ But who spends time alone with a guy and calls it ‘just friends’? I could tell she was hiding something, especially since she got defensive when I asked her to show me his profile.
Then she said she wanted ‘a break’ because she wasn't mentally ready. I told her no—if we’re taking a break, it’s going to be a permanent one. So, here I am, heartbroken again.
Why am I so hurt over someone I had to try so hard to love in the first place?
Last updated on:2024-11-14T17:07:31+05:30
Comments (7)
maybe you should try a new strategy next time: love at first sight.
Well, at least you know you're capable of falling in love, even if it takes a little effort.
Sometimes, people change, and we have to accept it.
It's important to learn from past relationships. What can you take away from this experience?
I can't imagine how much this hurts. Sending you strength and healing energy.
That's really painful. It's hard to understand why people change so drastically
I'm so sorry to hear that. It's tough going through heartbreak, especially when you've invested so much.