I was with him for almost a year and gave him everything, but he never appreciated it. I was always there for him even when no one else was. I tried to heal him support him even when everyone else wanted him to fail. But he still treated me badly sometimes and I stayed.
How can someone be this careless? He promised he’d never leave me, called me beautiful and perfect all the time talked about our future and even hyped up the idea of us getting a place together. He told me to get therapy because I cried all the time but I was just hurt from him betraying my trust. He’d always say he loved me told me I was his bbygirl and made it seem like we were stuck together forever. But then he'd get in these moods and break up with me only to come back and act like nothing happened. I kept forgiving him hoping he’d change but he never did. He’s so careless and nonchalant.
I’m just so tired idk what to do anymore. I really think he’s narcissistic and bipolar. One minute he’s all sweet and loving and the next he’s irritated over nothing.
I stayed because I cared so much and wanted to help him especially after everything he’s been through. I was trying to help him grow into a better man, but he was just too careless to see it. It’s crazy how quickly he cut me off after everything but still says he loves me. You don’t treat someone you love like that.
Last updated on:2024-11-21T17:38:08+05:30
Comments (4)
You're not responsible for fixing him. You can't change someone who doesn't want to change.
You deserve so much better. Don't let anyone make you feel like you're not worthy of love and respect.
I'm so sorry you went through this. It's heartbreaking to give so much and receive so little in return.
Props to you for walking away—it’s not easy. You’ll have moments where you wanna go back but trust your choice stick with it and you’ll be way happier in the long run.