My ex and I called it quits after 6 months of dating. We were friends before, but it just wasn’t clicking romantically. I miss my best friend, but I know the breakup was hard for both of us, even though it ended on decent terms. She said it felt like I treated her more as a friend than anything else and suggested we go back to being just that. But instead, we haven’t talked since. I feel kinda guilty and really wish we could go back to how things were. It’s been almost a month now, and I don’t know if I should reach out.
Last updated on:2024-11-22T13:16:37+05:30
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Maybe try a casual text or DM to see how she’s doing. A simple hey how’s it going? could be a good start
Maybe take some time to process your feelings before reaching out. Sometimes space can help.
Damn that’s a bummer. Sometimes things just don’t work out even if you want them to.
Oof that’s rough. Breakups are always tough, especially when it’s with a close friend.
Have you considered writing her a letter? Sometimes a handwritten note can convey feelings more effectively.
Perhaps a heartfelt message expressing your feelings could help bridge the gap.
Maybe give it a little more time before reaching out.
Sometimes distance can help heal and provide perspective.
it's tough when a friendship transitions into something more and then back again.
She just wants to keep you on standby—like a toy she picks up when she's bored then puts back when she's done. You cool with that?