I liked this guy for like a whole year. The second I saw him, I was obsessed.
At the start of this year, he followed me on socials, and I was shook because I didn’t even think he knew I existed. He’d like all my posts, and one day I replied to one of his. We started talking and totally hit it off. We clicked, and honestly I was vibing with him. But he’d reply super late—not he wasn’t interested, just that’s how he is. At first I didn’t care but later I got anxious and would spam him.
Around that time I realized he liked me too. He’d constantly compliment me and even though we didn’t talk much IRL when we did he’d give me this look like he was falling for me. He even told me he dreamt about me before we became friends, which was wild he said he barely dreams. His replies got faster and he’d say witty stuff to make me laugh. It was so obvious he liked me. But this only lasted like two months.
Fast forward he started pulling back. He got busy with his life which I kinda get. But then the other day he sent me a meme deleted it and followed up with a long paragraph saying we needed to stop talking cuz of personal issues. I agreed, and we cut it off. He told me I was the only one he talked to, and that’s why he had to stop, but he still follows other girls?
The other day I finally confessed to him, and he said he only saw me as a friend. Like what?? Why lie? It felt like a punch in the gut but I wasn’t completely heartbroken until this morning. I checked his socials, and he unfollowed all my friends and siblings.
I’m so confused. What changed? Is there even a chance this works out in the future? He said he wants to focus on himself which is why we stopped talking but idk why he wasn’t just straight up about how he felt. Did he even feel anything at all? He kept saying Don’t take it to heart that we can’t talk.
And like…how did he cut me off so easily? I gave him so much—gifts kind words all of it. Even in our last convos he was complimenting me and saying nice stuff about my personality.
If anyone has thoughts or advice on this I’d really appreciate it.
Last updated on:2024-11-26T16:44:44+05:30
Comments (7)
Don't let him play with your emotions.
He's not worth your tears. Don't waste your energy on him.
He's probably just immature.
Don't take it too seriously.
Don't take it personally. He's not worth your time.
Classic case of ghosting. It's not you, it's him. 👻
he's a major player. Don't let him string you along.
Oof, this is a rough one.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. 💔