I (26M) have been tryna shoot my shot with this girl for like 5 months now. She told me she’s single but wants to stay that way 'cause of her Christian values—basically trying avoid temptation. But me being the stubborn clown I am I kept pushing taking her on dates buying her whatever she wanted even drove 3 hours twice just to see her. I figured if I just gave her time she'd come around.
Fast forward to today I drove 3 hours again to take her to this resort she’s been wanting to visit. She asked me to take pics on her phone and when I hit the multi-app button I saw her chat with this dude saved as Bunny. Dude wasn’t even trying—like not giving her any energy—and she was out here apologizing to him over some silly stuff. From the vibe of that preview I just knew... this is the guy she’s into.
In that moment everything clicked. All that Christian values talk? Nah she just didn’t like me. She was hooked on what I was giving, not who I am. And yeah, I get it now—I was kinda setting myself up for this. But damn it still hurts. I really loved her. I just wanted to give her everything.
Last updated on:2024-11-28T14:03:33+05:30
Comments (4)
You’ll find love again.
dude. That’s a tough one.
She was playing you plain and simple.
She was just using you bro.