So after some months, he hits me with a thumbs up. He was always avoidant and I fell hard for him before I even realized. We dated for like 4 months broke up made up, then broke up for good the last time and I just considered him dead to me Still want him gone tho. I’m gonna leave him on read and keep doing me.
How would you handle it?
Last updated on:2024-11-29T16:40:04+05:30
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He's hurt and kinda curious. Was hoping you'd hit him back so he could see how you've been since the radio silence.
Lmao he’s gonna be waiting for that forever. I’m not talking to him unless I have to.
You can just block him from seeing your posts, I think.
He just slid into my DMs.
@LittGirl2 Ever thought about just blocking? Nothing wrong with it tbh
@YusufKaniK I didn’t block him months ago so I’m not doing it now. Honestly he hasn’t been part of my life. I just feel kinda sad for him. I’ve fully moved on and I’m super happy where I’m at now. After we broke up I hit rock bottom—I really loved him and thought we had a whole future together. For like two weeks it even felt real. But when he showed his true colors I had to pull everything I had to move forward. It took me about six months to start feeling like myself again. Now, I’m thriving. I’ve got a job I like I bought a house in a neighborhood I vibe with and I’ve got solid people in my life. Looks like he’s not doing so great though if he’s reaching out. That’s my take on it.
@LittGirl2 Lol it's been months for me too and I'm still not over it. Hopefully one day I’ll be where you are. But yeah don’t read too much into the thumbs up thing. People always blow stuff out of proportion and make it seem deeper than it really is.
i would just ignore it entirely
Okay, but like I get having an avoidant attachment style and all but sending a thumbs up after months? That’s such a weak move. Honestly that kind of response deserves to be ignored. Sure it might sting for him, but like bro couldn’t even send a real message? Come on.
This sums him up in one line fr--that’s him.