So like, I've had two people just straight-up ghost me after being in long-term relationships with them. I'm officially tapping out of the dating scene.
I've been working on myself and I'm healthier now but tbh if that happened again idk how I'd handle it. I think my best move is to just stay celibate and fully commit to my career. The whole soulmate thing? Yeah I don’t really vibe with that anymore especially after how much I gave to the last person. Feels like something's wrong with me like I don’t even deserve a partner. Honestly people scare me now. They can be so mean.
Last updated on:2024-12-03T12:35:21+05:30
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This is honestly where I’m at rn. I’m getting more and more chill with the idea of not having romantic interests, relationships, or even marriage. After the mess of past relationships I just don’t care anymore.
I was in a long-term thing, but they wanted to break up cuz they found someone else.
When I got back out there, I got ghosted more times than I can even count. It’s super common. Not saying it’s okay or that I’m cool with it, but honestly, don’t quit just cuz a few people dipped.
If you feel like focusing on your career and going celibate is your vibe, do you!
But don’t think there’s anything wrong with you or that you’re the issue. Dating these days is wild, and yeah, it can suck sometimes.
Whatever you decide, I just hope it makes you happy!