Yo, I’m so confused. My ex dumped me like 4 months ago and I’ve been doing no contact since. It was rough at first, I grieved hard for those first two weeks but I moved on. Like, she straight up told me I wouldn’t wanna be with you it’s a life choice or whatever. So I focused on myself never even looked at her stories or anything. But these past few months? She’s been watching mine like every time sometimes even from both her accounts?? Watching my stories twice??
Anywa today she broke no contact. She hit me up to congratulate me on something and even dropped a lil inside joke. I replied but kept it short. Tbh I feel indifferent now. I legit thought her ego was too huge for her to ever talk to me again. Plus, last month she did this thing with another guy that was like our little secret but whatever. Point is she broke no contact and I did NOT see that coming.
Last updated on:2024-12-03T13:51:41+05:30
Comments (17)
Sorry but you weren’t no contact you were just avoiding. No contact means blocked.
I kinda wish my ex would break the no contact
i was shook but nah i don't want her back
@Kive09Dome Is it for me or her? Guessing it’s for her.
@Madeline props to OP for not wanting her back
@Xavier09 oh yeah that's cool.
Not for me tho I want my ex back.
No contact? Y’all were still on each other’s socials watching stories. That’s not no contact like ever 🤷🏻♀️
Not tryna start anything but didn’t think watching stories counted as breaking no contact? I always thought the vibe was that watching stories means nothing, so I figured it wasn’t a big deal since it’s not actually reaching out.
It was straight-up no contact. I didn’t talk to her, didn’t check her stories, nothing. Zero interaction.
@Kive09Dome Sorry but that’s not no contact. No contact means literally nothing connecting you two. Her seeing what you were up to the whole time counts as contact. Doesn’t matter if you talked directly or not. You still had the option to check her stories even if you didn’t it’s still not no contact.
@Millie1Sen That's your take on no contact. For me it was no contact all the way. I went without doing saying or even looking at her. No contact? I did that.
@Kive09Dome Ayo whatever works for you lol. But nah you didn’t go no contact. It’s not up for debate it’s facts. You’ve been in contact this whole time. Of course she hit you up – you were always there for her to reach.
@Millie1Sen I went no contact end of story. That’s your take but you clearly haven’t heard of Coach Lee.
@Kive09Dome You mean the coach who literally said you can’t see them and they can’t see you (which, like, you didn’t do)? Yeah I’ve heard of Coach Lee. I don’t really follow coaches online lol but good luck tho
It’s nothing. My ex was here for a week we met like three times. He left yesterday and now I find out he has a gf. I’m just like... wtf lol.
That's awful, i'm sorry
@Kive09Dome Sorry you're going through this but congrats on ditching that trash dude. Wishing you all the best.