Got dumped over the phone last night after 5 months together. For the first time in forever I felt seen, loved, and appreciated for just being me. All the flaws I’ve buried for years? She saw through them, and I thought she was beautiful, smart, and kind. Waking up felt exciting, like life had meaning. Now, I feel numb but also hurting. Nothing I enjoy helps.
It felt like she was just unloading me like everything we had didn’t even matter. Haven’t felt this broken in ages. Blocked her right after the call. I’ve got friends but feeling loved? Nah, it’s not there. I’ve always dreamed of having someone to really love and be loved by and now that it’s gone I’m questioning if I’m even worth it.
She was one of the best people I’ve ever met. I hope she finds what she’s looking for even if it wasn’t me. But now? I don’t even know what to do anymore.
Last updated on:2024-12-05T13:01:27+05:30
Comments (5)
You'll heal in time. Give yourself time to recover and grow.
Focus on your goals. Set and achieve personal and professional goals.
Find healthy coping mechanisms. Explore hobbies, exercise, or meditation.
Don't blame yourself. Her decision to end the relationship was her own.
Ever thought about trying counseling? how long you gonna let other people decide your worth?