Hey this is my first post and I wanna know what y'all think good or bad. So yesterday my relationship ended. My partner (25) said she’s overwhelmed with stuff like figuring out life after college whether to stick with her job what specialty to pursue next plus dealing with her dad’s health issues. She told me she doesn’t have the headspace to keep the relationship going because she’s scared it’ll take a backseat.
We’ve also been arguing about small differences. Like, she loves blasting music in the car but I don’t vibe with that. She’s all about white I’m into black. She’s the dance-and-laugh type and I’m not but I try to be. We both like fun just in different ways. I thought it was normal but she says we don’t connect anymore. She literally told me We don’t connect anymore.
It’s hard to sum up a 10-month relationship in one post. We’ve had an amazing connection since day one and I’ve always given it my all. No cheating no toxic stuff—just what I mentioned. She asked for a break but I don’t believe in that. For me love is either yes or no.
I’m 23 and kinda lost here. Do I give her space to think and maybe come back or do I go all in and fight for us? I feel like love’s about giving it your all setting ego aside and making it work.
Right now I feel like I wanna go to her and show her we can grow, improve, and mature as a couple. I really believe our relationship deserves another shot. Thoughts?
Last updated on:2024-12-10T11:55:40+05:30
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I would say keep in touch but don't expect a romantic connection. You never know. seems like she has a lot going on and she is seeing that you don't enjoy the same things. at any other calmer time people have time and energy to make an effort. I guess she has no energy as of now
Alright so you’re saying she ended things yeah? You can’t really chase someone after they break up with you. It’s her call just like it’d be yours if you were the one ending it. You can’t make someone be with you. There’s a chance she might wanna reconnect once she sorts through her stuff but you’ll just have to wait and see.