I still miss her dumb ass even tho I know we’re a mess together. One minute I’m hating her, the next I’m loving, missing, and wanting her.
Sometimes I’m glad we met, other times I’m just mad about it. I wish I could move on fr. But the worst is when I’m out and see some girl who looks like her or gives off her vibe, and it’s like I’m back to square one wanting her again.
Last updated on:2024-12-16T13:50:04+05:30
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Here’s my take I get it I’m kinda in the same spot, but honestly, I don’t hate my ex. I wish I could tho. I broke up with her while blackout drunk and don’t even remember it—didn’t mean it at all. She said I made her feel unloved and like she hated herself. Don’t know much yet, this was only two weeks ago. I’ve been lowkey into her foryears and once we finally got together I gave it my all but it seems like that pushed her away. All I really know right now is that acceptance is key. Do whatever feels right—text her call her or just ghost. But you gotta accept that maybe she doesn’t love you even if you still love her. Keep your mind busy. Moving on is tough but it’s easier if you’re working or hanging with friends. Don’t hate her tho. If you really loved her, you wouldn’t hate her just love her from afar like I am. I’ll always love them with my whole heart even if they don’t feel the same. You gotta accept that they don’t want you anymore. Time will heal promise. Take care of yourself the way you took care of her. Eventually you’ll be alright even if it takes a year or more. Much love ❤️
Thanks for the insight I gotta accept it. I can love her from afar too and I gotta accept that too. You’re real for this fr
@moodyblue I feel you I know it's tough. I think about her non-stop, like literally all day, every day. When I wake up before I sleep. But seriously, accepting it is step one. I’m trying to move on but I know I’ll love her till the end like I promised. If she comes back and you really love her, don’t let her go. I swear, the right person makes the pain worth it. Heartbreak? Totally worth the wait. Don’t be hard on yourself though you're still learning growingand loving. Just take it day by day you'll get there.
thanks for sharing that info, i agree. we were really toxic someone was def gonna get hurt if we stayed together 😭
If you broke up there’s a reason for it so don’t forget that. My ex dipped 5 weeks ago for another girl after years together. I’ve messed up no contact so many times and still wanna reach out but I know it won’t change anything. The truth is he doesn’t want me anymore and that’s just how it is.
It's kinda comforting hearing people share their stories of breaking no contact. Makes me feel a little less awkward about doing it too.
My ex never cheated and we were still in love when we broke up. But like you I keep reminding myself they just don’t want me anymore. Nothing else to do about it.