My ex was super into me but dipped cuz his mom made him feel like he had to pick between me and his fam. When we were together I was his whole world and he really wanted a future with me. If you’ve ever been in my ex’s shoes with someone you thought was your soulmate did you regret it? Did you feel any type of way toward your fam for putting you in that spot?
Last updated on:2024-12-20T18:07:35+05:30
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this just happened to me. did you guys go NC? how are you handling it?
Yeah we're not talking cuz he wanted me to back off. I'm not doing great honestly. We can chat more if you want.
@shedreams When it comes to relationships they're kinda replaceable like there's always someone better. But when it comes to you as a person there's only one of you ya know?
@OPRah23 I don’t agree cause every relationship is different like each person involved brings their own vibe so no relationship is really replaceable. And honestly there’s not always someone better. Everyone has their own standards and if you leave someone who was literally perfect for you you might not find anyone else who fits like that. Better is all subjective anyway.
@shedreams No one's perfect tho. If they found someone better they wouldn’t have left. I gotta admit my heart ain't what it used to be. That person died with the people I buried and all the heartbreak over the years. My answer would've been the same as yours if I saw this a few years ago.
@OPRah23 I said it’s all subjective. someone can be exactly what you want and need and still be the perfect person for you. People dip out of relationships for all sorts of reasons not just cause their partner didn’t meet the standards. You could find someone who's perfect (to you) and still walk away for reasons that have nothing to do with them.
@shedreams I can't really get why someone would dip for a reason that’s not about the other person unless it’s cuz of losing interest or a toxic vibe. shouldn't they talk about it first before just bailing?
@OPRah23 my ex dipped on me cuz someone in his fam spread some random rumor about me and his mom wasn’t cool with me anymore. He bounced even though I was literally everything he wanted. The rumors weren’t true at all and he knows that, so his reason for leaving had nothing to do with who I am.
Nah I don’t regret any of my past relationships. if I think about them, they all kinda blur together. Don’t regret leaving either. They’re part of why my heart’s cold but not the whole reason. Everyone’s replaceable and there’s always someone better out there.
no one's really replaceable like everyone’s got their own vibe and that's what makes them one of a kind
he probably will but his mom might've already had someone lined up for him once it ended. if that's true he might just move on
I had this ex whose fam wasn’t a fan of me cuz of religious stuff. She always picked their side over ours so I ended it for that.
Family drama never really fades huh
he might regret leaving you and probably misses you but the truth is he made his choice and all that’s in the past now. sorry if it sounds harsh but you gotta accept reality no matter how hard and start focusing on your healing