Do guys ever regret letting go of a girl who actually loved and cared for them?
Last updated on:2024-12-26T13:40:24+05:30
Do guys ever regret letting go of a girl who actually loved and cared for them?
Do guys ever regret letting go of a girl who actually loved and cared for them?
Last updated on:2024-12-26T13:40:24+05:30
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Yeah
Just lost a relationship and I can't deal with it. I miss her every day and I can't forgive myself for letting her go. I wanna keep fighting for her but she's so over me by now. I still love her with everything I’ve got and I know she did too until I started hurting her more than she ever thought was possible.
I feel like both guys and girls do this but mostly they hype up things in the other person that were never actually there. Love isn’t always enough to make it work. You need compatibility similar goals and shared values. You can love someone and still dip if they don’t vibe with your politics money situation etc.
It's better to love than to be loved, so guys don’t really regret losing a woman who cared for them... but they might regret losing the one they actually loved. Either way she’s gone
This probably says more about my subconscious than the actual truth but in my experience I’ve never regretted letting a girl go even though I’m still stuck on my ex who bounced.
Guess it just depends if they felt the same. Otherwise probably not
They never really let go of someone they loved that much. I know I haven’t. The thoughts fade but she’ll always be there.
If a dude really loves a girl he won't just let her go
this legit crushed me so he never even loved me? cool lol guess I’m gonna go cry now
@Eugenie00 I don’t think that’s true I’ve left someone I loved and regretted it still do. Breakups are messy.
@moodyblue I just wanna know if he regrets breaking up with me cuz right now it feels like none of it was real for him and it’s really hurting.
@Eugenie00 Sometimes an ex might say stuff to protect you I know I did that before I realized I messed up. But if the relationship was real it was real for them too even if they had their reasons for ending it. Wish I had answers for the regret part tho. I tried to get someone back after breaking their heart but in the end it was mine that got broken. I do wonder if they feel the same or have regrets but sometimes we can’t control that. Best thing you can do is focus on yourself and move on slowly and who knows maybe fate will bring you back together. But can’t count on that which is something I’m working on too.
@moodyblue It’s tough for me to move on from people or things, I get really attached and I hate letting go. I’ve been trying to distract myself and distance from my feelings, it worked for a while but a few hours ago, it hit me. I went no contact for three weeks straight. I tried to trick myself into being hopeful but I caved. Honestly, I don’t even get what’s going on with me.
@Eugenie00 I get you it’s definitely a time thing. I go through ups and downs like everyone else. Some breakups hit harder than others too. Just take your time things will get better eventually and make sure to look after yourself.
they totally should0 or like half the country songs out there wouldn’t even make sense.
Yeah I do but that’s in the past. Now I’m just focused on leveling up and being better than I was yesterday. I’ve been on both sides sadly but with time it’ll all be okay.
In my experience nah