The girl I loved got influenced heavy by her friends from other countries. They kinda reshaped her vibe and then she started overthinking stuff. If she messed up somehow it was on me. If I messed up it was WW3.
One day she legit embarrassed me in front of her friends while they were all hanging out. I wasn’t even allowed to join cuz she was all about them over me. Then they started sending me voice notes saying I suck that I should man up and take a joke instead of being soft. The joke? Eat your girl out or I will. Like bro I’ve got standards so I told them straight up that’s not happening while we’re together.
Later we all went to this concert ironically the same place we first met and I was iced out by the group. Turns out they flipped the script and painted me as this horrible person which I’m not. I’m not perfect but I’m a pretty solid dude.
After the concert she hit me with how awful I’ve been and said it’s over. I asked if we could talk things out, maybe meet up to clear the air. She called said it’s done no discussion and hung up before I could even say a word.
I cried for hours after. Lost the girl I loved so much. I’d drop everything for her even ditched my friends trying to put her first.
And the wild part? I still wanna be with her.
Last updated on:2024-12-26T17:37:44+05:30
Comments (8)
Focus on the future. Look ahead to a brighter future for yourself.
Her loss. She's missing out on a great guy.
Don't contact her. It's best to move on.
Her friends sound toxic too. Their behavior was unacceptable.
You dodged a bullet. You deserve better than that kind of treatment.
She sounds immature. Letting her friends dictate her relationships isn't healthy.
Damn, that's rough. Sounds like a toxic situation.
I know it sucks bad and you still wanna be with her. My ex went full demon mode and I still love her like crazy. But sounds like you dodged a whole ass missile. Her and her friends give major asshole energy. What you said feels so childish and I’d lose it if my gf acted like that.
I know nothing I say can fix it. You still love her and that’s real. Love’s powerful. But one day I hope you can look back and be glad it went down like this.